I married to have sex. I was fine with it at first, but now it is about to drive me ~~~CRAZY~~~ I am a Christian and my morals usually keep me in check, but how much can I pray and read the Bible. What do I do? And I know some of you can't help yourselves, you will be nasty, but I need at least one or two legitimate answers, OK?
2006-12-29 07:35:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
James 4:7,8 Resist the devil and he will flee from you.
Draw near to God and he will draw near to you.
If you have a boyfriend ....discuss this with him.....discuss marriage with him.
I applaud your convictions and agree 100%
1 Corinthians 7; Romans 8:13; Romans 15:1; James 5:24
Self-denial is hard but the reward is well worth it.
1 Corinthians 7:8,9 Remain unmarried...but if they cannot contain, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn.
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2006-12-29 07:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-24 23:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by immanuel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to start off by disclosing I am not a religious person I am more spiritual.
But since you are a christian and it seems being a christian is important to you why wouldn't you go talk to your minister / pastor / reverend about these impulses. Humans are not infallable and no one is without sin. Giving into your impulses sometimes leads to regret but can at times also be fruitful.
You need to settle this with you and God. If you feel having sex outside of wedlock is an abomination but you have urges to have sex. Your body is telling you something but the Bible is telling you somethign different.
Only you know what needs to be done.
But also remember that according to teh Bible no one is without sin except for Jesus. In addition he died for you to wash away your sins and that your sins are forgiven if you ask for forgiveness.
Just remember you will need to live with this for the rest of your life. Be careful and Safe no matter what your decision is.
2006-12-29 07:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by synapticeclipse 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think the decision to stay a virgin or not is 100% a personal one. If you are 35 and are happy, then so be it. I can't speak much for your own personal values (everyone is different - I'm sure there are many people out there who consider themselves Christians but do not wait for marriage), but I hope they lead you in the direction you are ultimately happy with. After all, you have to live with your own decisions and actions.
2006-12-29 07:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by CG 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a tough question. Placing morals against human needs, wants, and desires. What is the problem that you have not gotten married? Do you have a boy friend? I would need to know more of your situation to make any kind of a suggestion to you. I hope all works out, but that is really a tough situation. Good luck.
2006-12-29 07:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look. Your body was designed for sex. It was designed to reproduce, or none of us would be here. People have put limitations on sexuality for the obvious reasons--to curtail the spread of disease. They way you choose to treat your body is up to you. There's nothing wrong with masturbation, and it helps keep the sexual tension down. Get a personal massager. Put it where it feels good. God will still let you in heaven. You are judged by the accumulation of your acts, both good and not-so-good. No one can be perfectly holy all the time. If they could, Jesus would have had competition. There's only ONE virgin mother, and that's Mary. Respect your body, but don't over think things.
2006-12-29 07:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by clever nickname 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What the hell is a weegan? Isn't it called a virgin!!!! Maybe that is why you are having such a problem you dont even know what sex terms are! It is a personal choice to have sex or not. If you chose to not until marriage then way to go but dont start whining bec you want to but your morals are higher then the rest of us mere mortals. We are all human including you. So pick one and go with it but dont complain about your choices. Maybe you need to work harder on finding the man of your dreams so you can get married and laid!
2006-12-29 08:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm a christian to. And yes having sex before marriage is against our religion. But if it does happen then do what i do and always remember in gods eyes a sin is a sin. Having sex, murdering someone or just telling a lie are all on the same level.
2006-12-29 07:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was a (what did you call it?) a weegan? and i understand completely, you just have to stick to your morals and when you get married you can go crazy like me LOL
My mother In Law is a very stern Catholic and she was 36 before she got married and had Mr. Mic bong bong, so don't believe the people on here you are NOT to old, you just have morals and values Unlike me and everyone else, Shut up i am getting laid i dont have to have any morals or values LOL
2006-12-29 07:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Charisma 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I admire you. My father is a retired Pentecostal pastor and had taught us to wait until we were married to have sex. I truly wish that I had listened to him. They have items that you can purchase so you can take care of business (so to speak). Keep your morals and values in high priority - you're one of a dying breed!
2006-12-29 07:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jayna 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋