what would you do if your girlfriend or wife cheated on u with another female??

Answer 1

i think that any man would be pissed off, whether it be that she cheated or did it without him.. its still cheating anyway u look at it!!

Answer 2

Personally, I'm real big on monogamy and commitment. If it was just a girlfriend I would let it go and find someone else depending on how long we were together and how much I invested in the relationship. If it was my wife, I would got f***ing gorilla on her a**. In a relationship you invest time, money, emotions, possibly children. Therefore with type of behavior deserves punishment. When I was younger and I caught my boyfriend cheating on me, I politely walked up stairs and maced him and her in the face. I'm older now, so I think everyone should try to avoid violence, because it's really not worth it. You can't make people love you. You have to sometimes count your losses. Anyhoo I hope this offers some insight.

Answer 3

Actually it depends of how serious the relationship with your girlfriend is. If my wife cheated on my i would b really pissed off because that's offending me that just like telling me that I am not good in bed or something thank god that hasn't happened to me hopefully it wont. But if it was with someone that u don't see urself in the future then try to get every man's fantasy being with 2 girls. well that's all i can say good luck with everything. peace out

Answer 4

It doesn't matter if she cheated on you with a male or a female. She broke trust. If I felt that the marriage/relationship was worth saving I would require that we both go through therapy. If she is not willing to do that then I would suggest that she is not ready for a commitment and perhaps it is time to start the break up process.

Answer 5

Hahaha! You're hilarious!
I take it you're a guy, then?

Well, if I'm tight about the whole fidelity thing, I guess I'd dump him/her. But since I'm not, I'll just ask why he did it and whether he enjoyed it.

My boyfriend actually did that once. I kind of caught him w/ another guy in the act. But I didn't say anythign 'till they were done. I just waited outside the bedroom. I didn't mean to but when he came out I slapped him. And then I asked him, "was it good?"

*shrug*

Answer 6

I'm sure many guy's will say 'ask to join in' but at the end of the day she cheated whether with a man or woman, i would be just as hurt, and maybe think "did i turn them gay?"

Answer 7

you're in love and hurting suitable now. If she loves her lady pal that plenty, why do no longer you bypass forward it do what you comprehend you ought to do. As confusing because it relatively is, in case you get it over with now, you will experience extra helpful faster. tell her which you would be able to no longer stay like this and want to bypass on. it is the only thank you to have happiness interior the destiny.

Answer 8

1. try and talk to her about it
2. get her to understand that she dose not hae to hide it
3. try and be supportive of her feelings and what she is going through.

that is the best advice i can give, maybe she is just being couroius or mabye that will be come her final choice. Either way getting mad, will not solve any thing, it would just cost you a friend.

Answer 9

To think that this is a "macho" offense is utterly retarded (my brother is mentally handicapped-trust me, i aksed him, he says it's retarded so you know it's bad).

I would hurt the same if my mate was in love with someone else and not me. If it was out of lust, I figure we could work something out. As long as there is love there for me I think anything could be worked on.

Answer 10

Same thing I'd do if she cheated on me with a guy. Dump her.