What am i meant to expect/feel from being a confused teenager & being pregnant?

Answer 1

I was in your shoes. I am now 27 with a 10 year old daughter. I will start by saying that if you need to talk, let me know and we can exchange e-mail addresses, or something.

As far as feelings, I know you are probably flooded with emotions. You probably feel left out by friends who seem to have turned your back on you. Scared because of your situation and your future. Excited (I hope) because of the life growing inside of you.

These are all normal. You may be trying to decide whether or not to have and keep the baby. You may wonder what is going on with you and the baby's father, and what the future holds for the two or three of you.

I wish to say congratulations. And again, if you would like to talk, let me know. Good luck!

Answer 2

Only you can decide that. you dont say how far gone you are but when i first found out i was expecting i was like a emotional rollorcoaster. It takes time getting used to i felt scared,worried etc. Try talking to your parents or a doctor maybe having a talk with someone will help you figure out how you feel. there are some great websites with women going thought the same as you they have special forums for different things.....good luck and all the best

Answer 3

prob sick...and sh*ting myself about what my mum would say! sorry..so helpful i kno. what ever people say just remember its ur live and ur free to do with it as u please. and congratulations!

oh and IGNORE all these people telling u 2 get rid of the baby!! shame on them. yes, ok u were LEGALLY too young to have sex but meh, u've done it now. if u think u r ready for a baby then go ahead with it. u will not be poor and have no lif, husband etc. and no u should not have waited until u were married, hell. i'm 5 months gone and not married and prob abt to split with the father, but that don';t make me ashamed of my child.
If anyone has the cheak to look down at u simply because u r a young mother, then look down on them for being so closed minded about things. and prehaps u should remind them that it used to be the norm for girls younger than urself 2 b mothers. also...they start having ago? just look at the beautiful baby u hav, yea u're young, but while other mothers were 2 tired because they were older, u'll hav more energy so the babe'll hav so much fun with u! plus chances r u'll be a great grandma!

again, congratualtions, and just do whatever u think is best 4 u

p.s, u can always email me if u just wana chat 2 sum1

Answer 4

You are pregnant your body is throwing so many hormones at you you, you are also at the age of being confused anyway but withthe addition to pregnancy it makes it all seem a little more petrifying, can you talk to your mum or an adult around you.

You are going to feel very scared, like you have let yourself down? like you are worthless now? you name it you will feel it, nut as i said you need someone to talk to, even a school counseller may be able to help you get around your emotions.

I hope this helps sweetie x x

Answer 5

It is absolutely normal to be scared and confused when you are a pregnant teen. The most important thing to do is find someone you can talk to. And if your parents don't know tell them. I told my parents w/ my 1st pregnancy right after I found out I was pregnant and my dad wanted me to have an abortion and my mom wanted me to give it up for adoption (I ended up miscarrying) but was pregnant again within 3mos. and hid it uintill I was 7 mos. and it took me a long time to build up my relationship w. my parents and I should have just been honest w/ them.

Answer 6

i'm sure you'll probably feel like a piece of ****... sorry, im not trying to be rude.
just block out of of the negative things that you are gonna here from people... not just one here, but at school, works, etc. being a pregnant teen, the last thing you need to worry about is what people are saying about you... you have alot on your sholders.... going for that your not having an abortion, i suggest that you start working, if you are of age, save as much money as you can to pay for things... make sure you are taking pernatal vitamins..... you cant do this alone, so talk to your parents about this... there is so much to say, i dont even know where to start.... but just keep your head up through this, and remember... your baby comes first


good luck, and best wishes to you

Answer 7

Well babe, i'm a confused teenager as well and so i guess you can only expect that you will be searching fro answers and stuff. As for the pregnancy part, i hope psychologically you're ready for the consequences.
Best wishes.

Answer 8

Confused and a bit worried, just like anybody who is experiencing their first pregnancy. Talk to your parents or midwife, it really helps to talk about your worries and get them off your chest. Enjoy yourself and your pregnancy and be happy. You are bringing a new life into the world and that is something to be very proud of, whatever your age. Good luck! :)

Answer 9

well youre certainly goin to go through a stage of depression i think but maybe i can give you a lil advice...i think that its important to get over this stage ASAP. you have to think about what you are going to do, plan out your life and the plans that you had that are now going to certainly change.

wallowing in self-pity and depression is not going to do anything but make this pregnancy miserable for you adn theres certainly enough about pregnancy itself to think about. get support from your friends and family.

at this point, whats done is done so you need to explain this to whoever doesnt support you. i was in the same situation, well i am 20 and i just had my baby but my parents did not support me basically until the baby was born. now they cant stay away from her. i am still in college, only three semesters till i graduate, i have a wonderful fiance, a great condo, and wonderful friends.

things get easier once you are able to see things in a positive light. start making plans and helping yourself. things always have a way of working themselves out...since everything happens for a reason. good luck :)

Answer 10

you sound confused. Just take it day by day. Spend some time on your own so you dont have so many people telling you what to do. Do what you feel it right. And best for the baby wether you want to keep it or not.