I have this guy friend that I've known for quite a few months, but now I think that he is treating me in a way different than what he has been doing during the first couple of months. How would I know that he has the slightest feelings towards me other than just a good friend?
2006-12-29 07:00:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It depends if you like him.
If you do, it's much easier to deal with, bring up some dance or something that you'd like to go to, and see if he asks you out.
If you don't want to get into that kind of relationship, it's more tricky to bring things up.
Also, is he treating other people differently? If he is, then maybe it's something else in his life, like winter stress. Guys have hormones too unfortunately.
He could also be getting used to you. Perhaps he's letting down a charade.
Are you treating him any differently?
2006-12-29 07:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably right if you are somewhat of an intuitive person and only you know that. You may want to ask yourself though if you don't already like him and thats having and effect on how you see things. If so....be honest with yourself and ask if its worth risking a real relationship of friendship by telling the other person until you know for sure.
On the other hand, if you like him and want to pursue it more you should be honest but take it slow and let it change to a new type of relationship when you're both really ready. That will help ensure that it won't ruin things if you need to remain friends later...
2006-12-29 15:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to describe how he treats you (So your gonna have to answer my questions); has he been hugging you alot more lately? Giving you more gifts? Acting kind of flirty? How did he treat you before this happened? Pay attention to the way he's acting, look for blushing, nervous talking, no eye contact and things like that.
2006-12-29 15:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by calypsocaper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he spends more time with you than anyone else, he flirts with you, compliments you, talks about ur future together like how it would be if you guys went out..well last year when this guy liked me, he kept bugging me likee annoying me cuz he was shy and stuff, and always try to be around you, getting jealous if you talk to any other guys, smiling at you. hitting on you..always trying to touch you and stuff. i dunno those are some of the signs i think and stuff i've experienced when guys liked me..so just basically those kinds of things. why don't u just ask him if he is your guy friend? and give him a chance if he asks you out. i hope things work out for you. good luck!!
2006-12-29 15:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without staring at him, check out how often he makes eye contact with you. If he starts touching your arm or other places as he's talking, that's a sign of interest. How often does he give other girls the once over when he's with you?
2006-12-29 15:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm also stuck with that question. If you notice that he treats you differently it's probably because he does and you should ask him about it. Ask yourself: Do you want him to like you like that?
2006-12-29 15:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by surani_ud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know he likes you if he starts peeing all over himself!!!!
2006-12-29 15:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by wisrebel13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him.
2006-12-29 15:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by mysteryathelete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋