2006-12-29 06:49:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-12-29 07:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop cooking with Cheese.
No on the serious side The parents need to have a talk with the child and advise them that it is time to move on. Much as the parents love the child Parents need their time with each other alone too.
I hope that it all works out but talking and discussions sure are a great way to get to the issues at hand.
2006-12-29 14:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
David, this is a hard one since you don't give any detail why the 30 year old is still living at home, like school or money problems. If any of these aren't the case then set a date and tell them how much you love them but you feel it is time to find their own way.
2006-12-29 14:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by nicolejane68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just sit him/her down and tell them they have 3 months to find a place because you need your space now as an adult he shouldn't be still living at home like a child. If you were to stop doing laundry, tidying up, cooking & waking him in the mornings that will also help.
You have to be cruel to be kind I'm afraid, you could also mention the fact that no-one is going to want a relationship with a mummy's boy/girl.
2006-12-29 14:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the reason they are living with there parents. MOM please don't kick me out I swear i will close on that mortgage soon. Sorry I had to move suddenly I got evicted from my 5 bedroom house simply because the owner wanted to move back in. I payed on time every time too. So now im a 30 year old living at my moms house temporally. along with my wife and son.
2006-12-29 14:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to get the 30 year old or the parents out???
2006-12-29 14:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by carole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If parents have 30 year olds still living at home, parents are doing too much for them, hence they will never leave the nest. Why should they? Double their rent at home. If they're not contributing, THAT's the problem......
2006-12-29 14:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who needs an article! You give them a deadline by which to be moved out, if they're not out, you put them out. Time to grow up and stand on their own two feet!
2006-12-29 14:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by UNI Panther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for a frank family discussion.
issue a timeline for the 30 year old to move out.
a month to find alternative accomodation would be reasonable.
2006-12-29 14:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by owara l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well david if the peron is staying with you start putting out hints that this person needs to get his her own place.It dose'nt need a article give a deadline
2006-12-29 14:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by redbrownwoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋