2006-12-29 06:25:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I am so sorry for your loss. That is terrible. This just happened to a friend of mine as well. Remember that a miscarriage is NOT your fault! My friends doctor to her that she and her husband could start trying to have a baby again in 3-6 months if she felt ready at that point. But, you really should consult your own doctor because everyone is different and have different needs. She (my friends doctor) also stressed that depression was a normal occurrence after a miscarriage and if you are feeling depressed please talk to someone. You can even email me at helpkaira@yahoo.com if you need a friendly ear. I will pray for you and hope that the next time you conceive your baby will be healthy. Again, I am sorry for your loss. Best wishes.
2006-12-29 07:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tiggers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In July, I lost my baby. I was 22 weeks. Physically, you should wait 3 months. With a late loss, the wait is the same as if you had carried and delivered full term. Women do however get pregnant and deliver healthy babies with less than 3 months between pregnancies. The wait is merely to give your uterus time to heal, and your body time to replenish nutrients that are used during pregnancy. Getting pregnant sooner than three months can cause low birth weight and premature delivery, and will put the pregnancy in a high risk state. Since your next pregnancy will already be high risk, you do not want to potientially compound the problem by simply getting pregnant too soon. I know the wait is hard. I wanted to be pregnant again immediately, but you need time to heal emotionally too. Take this time to see a specialist and make sure you have a plan in place for the next pregnancy. See a fetal- maternal medicine specialist, sometimes referred to as a perinatologists, and make sure you know all you can about what happened so it can hopefully be prevented next time. I wish you all the best. Please know that you are not alone.
2006-12-29 09:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Chasity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 17 weeks pregnant now and nearly 6 months ago i had an eptopic pregnancies and had to have my left tube removed and i thought it would never happen my getting pregnant. I was told by the doctors that i should wait about 4-6 months to try again for a baby, But i didnt and a month after the op i got pregnant again so i think that you should start as soon as you feel ready
2006-12-29 08:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by AIMEE H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I lost my baby at 21 weeks in September. When I went in to the doctor's office I was told to wait 3 months for everything to go back to normal, and then to go in for another physical, just to be sure. I have my appointment next month. She also recommended going to a counselor to discuss my feelings about our loss and find out why I was in such a rush to try again. I know it's hard, but having another baby right away will not replace the one you lost. Talk to your significant other, as well. Even though you might be ready for another go, he might not be. My fiance had a harder time than I did, and though he was and is very supportive, we decided to wait until we are both ready, not just one.
2006-12-29 10:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sofia*Mia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say wait between 3-6 months to be on safe side my cousin lost her baby boy about 3 weeks ago she was 22 weeks pregnant actually gave birth and held her baby but the baby was born with cord around neck so he died, the hospital done everything they could to revive him but couldnt she is now under going therapy with a councillor and is trying to get beck on track so when she asked how long before tring again they told her to wait for 3-6 months as her body has to get over the pregnancy fully. i am so sorry to hear that this has happened and i wish you all the luck in the world with your next pregnancy
2006-12-29 08:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like to send you all my sympathy on the loss of your much wanted bundle of joy.I lost one in july due to an ectopic at 7 weeks which was so early compared to yours and im still not over it now so i cant imagine how you feel.just feel yourself with hope that one day we will be blessed with what we want.Ask your docter i think it would be a minmum 6 months to get your body back to normal and tip top condition.weve had to wait 6 months which isnt fiinnished yet it feels like forever but soon!!all the baby dust and luck to you....
2006-12-29 06:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, sorry about your loss, it must have been traumatic for you. I would if it were me wait a few months maybe even a year before embarking on another baby.
You may need some support and counselling. Easyier said than done but take your time and get some rest xx happy new year
2006-12-29 06:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start trying again as soon as you feel ready but most doctors advise waiting 3 months from the miscarriage, just to be cautious
2006-12-29 06:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. Before you start trying again I would check to make sure there isn't something wrong where you might lose another baby. Other than that, you should be able to start right away.
2006-12-29 06:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your physique is going via distinctive variations as quickly as you adjust into pregnant. i will sympathize with the aid of fact I even have miscarried. yet i think of having intercourse actual away, will possibly no longer have given your physique a guess to certainly heal. I dont be attentive to alot approximately HGC tiers, yet i be attentive to attempting lower back too quickly could be in simple terms that. in line with possibility you and your important different could take a number of your "restoration" time to debate the type you experience approximately this loss, and additionally learn greater approximately being pregnant (the information and solutions on your questions). maximum suitable of success to you and your destiny kin.
2016-10-06 04:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋