One time ONE TIME ever in the 4 1/2 yrs my hubby and I have been together he has *** while I was actually doing something. Apparently this hurt his pride as now the last few times when we have had sex he has really "let me have it" the other day he made me
c#$ without even going under my pants!! It kind of makes me feel like I am no good in bed. How do I get the upper hand? I mean he always gives me multiple orgasms. and then grins and says "man I should be a porn star" -just kidding around. I know he is just joking and if he knew it hurt my feelings he wouldn't ever say it... but how do I get better? I mean we do different positions and things but I don't know what to do to knock HIS socks off!! One time a LONG time ago he said that I needed to realize that he didn't like things the way I did. -it was while I was giving head. He has never said it again .. I don't know if I got any better or??not??? this is kind of embarrassing for me to ask but how do I learn?
2006-12-29 06:11:03 · 5 answers · asked by kristen s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him what he likes. Good communication is key to a healthy relationship, sexual or otherwise. Ask him to show you.
2006-12-29 06:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different and all of them like different things. The best thing I can think of is to ask him what can I do to pleasure you more. If you are not giving him head in a way that he wants it ask him. I know it is kind of an embarassing conversation to have but it works. I'm not married but, I asked my boyfriend and they will tell you. Believe me. Good luck.
2006-12-29 14:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him one night to be devoted only to him and while you're trying to pleasure him ask him "does this feel good?" (In a sexy way) and take his suggestions on how to make it feel good. Ask him just what he wants.
2006-12-29 14:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he likes, let him teach you. All guys are different. Let him SHOW you what works!
2006-12-29 14:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice makes perfect
2006-12-29 14:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋