okay, well this group of girls dont like me and they're always mean to me and they told me they would kick my ***, i have proof, what should i do.. im scared noww...
2006-12-29 06:10:16 · 50 answers · asked by x0o_deanna_x0o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i've tried, they like stalk me.
2006-12-29 06:11:56 · update #1
Tell your parents, tell the school, and if they don't do anything show the proof to the police, get restraining orders or whatever it is they do
2006-12-29 06:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by TKM2001 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, this problem happens to a lot of people. What I would do if that happened to me is I would start hanging out with a big group. Then, when they do kick your ***, then you have witness. Another thing I would do if that doesn't work is staying close to a teacher. Then, the girls will not have the chance of hurting you, since then they can get suspended. A lot of people say to stand up to yourself. But, don't do that. Because if you do, then the girls are just going to laugh, and tease you and make threats even more. If those advices don't work, maybe you can tell your parents, or your guidence counsler, and they can figure out. Maybe you can just think about moving. Don't freak out. Just stay calm about it. And your not the wierd one. The group of girls are. If they think they can be so tough, then they're a crazy group. Nobody should have the right to harrass people, especially at public places. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-29 06:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by lydomg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report this to whoever you can. Nobody has the right to harass or stalk you and make you the victim of bullying. As a last resort you may have to contact the police and tell them of your dilemma, but realize that this may only make things worse for you. Hopefully they will outgrow this and find someone else to bother. Do not get mouthy with any of these girls and try to stay away from where they are as much as humanly possible. But do not allow them to scare you so badly that you feel that you have to hibernate to feel save. Best of luck and watch out for your safety as a top priority.
2006-12-29 06:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from them, and if they ever do hit, call the police. If they are harassing you or things escalate way out of control you can also file restraining orders or an order of protection. And if they do come near you after that they can end up in jail. Of course those are very serious options, but if you feel that things get too out of control there still options.
Another way to handle this kind of thing is to stay near cameras, if your at school, spend most of your time in front of principals office or nearby, the library often has cameras there as well, and if they hit you or things get out of hand, it was probably recorded.
You can hang out in groups, that helps also. Just try to stay with your best friends and hang out together. if you have 3 or more friends that always stay together that's a very good way to protect yourself.
And i guess this really isn't the last option, its just one of the last I could think of. You can take personal-protection classes, I liked Isshinryu because it wasn't violence centered at all, it was very focused on just keeping yourself safe.
Good luck and I hope everything works out well in the end.
2006-12-29 06:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by NumberCruncher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you meet some new friends and hang out with them so that you aren't alone if you have to face these girls? Maybe you could join a martial arts class - those would be some very good friends to make. If not, then consider joining some other clubs or groups and expanding your contacts with other people so that someone is sure to be nearby to help you face this group.
2006-12-29 06:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullying is a real problem in schools and happens too often. It has nothing to do with you or anything that you have done; They just pick on people to show power and to impress their friends. Please talk to a teacher who you trust or school administrator. In the mean time stick close to a friend or a group of people where you can be seen - don't be alone to give them the opportunity to bully you. Don't let them know that you are afraid, keep your distance, don't make eye contact if they are near, and be careful.
2006-12-29 06:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the threats. If they havent done it by now, they're not going to. Dont challenge them or anything. If they do throw a punch, defend yourself. Get some friends to help back you up so if they do try to fight you, your group and you will fight back. Dont always try to 'turn the other cheek' or whatever all the nonsense is. Violence is the answer sometimes. Fight for yourself!!
2006-12-29 06:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell some one about this before things get out of hand.Be brave stand up to bullies,the thing with girls is that they act tough in a group but on their own and you confronted them they would be scared too.Good luck and stay strong.
2006-12-29 06:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Nookie bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will encounter people throughout your life that will try to scare and intimidate you. To live in fear is to allow someone or something else control your life. Just remember this quote from Gladiator "Death smiles at us all. All a man can do is smile back."
2007-01-01 14:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by AJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be such bitches. Try to never be alone, or alone with them. Perhaps ask the police to speak to them. Perhaps if they know other people are aware of theirs threats, they might back off a little. If your afraid of police, deal with parents or teachers. Good luck. I wish I could be of more help.
2006-12-29 06:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋