your opinion on judgment?

Question

what do you think people judge others mostly on hair, wieght, color, money, believes.. .etc..

Answer 1

We are judged on all but I believe weight is the biggest one. If you are overweight you are considered lazy, sloppy, out of control and just not interesting. Weight is something that everyone sees, you can't hide it, like money, beliefs maybe not hair lol but, it's right there and people are so cruel and mean and disrespectful, I don't know how anyone can treat another human being badly for the way they look. If not for the Grace of God goes any one of us. That is a fact.

Answer 2

I think people who are shallow, immature, and/or have mediocre intelligence judge on the superficial stuff you mentioned.

I think, though, well adjusted and intelligent people are more likely to "read" others by the overall way a person comes across. Each of us "gives off" an overall picture of the type of person we are, and I think more intelligent/mature people read that rather than pick apart someone's isolated traits/characteristics.

I find I tend to look for signs that a person is a well adjusted, non-ignorant, non-aggressive, person with integrity and kindness. I look for how clean someone is, whether they have on an outfit that "makes a statement" (and a statement that isn't a good one), and whether their clothing looks like they are crying out for attention (not a good sign).

I look for manners, friendliness, and a general impression that a person is a very solid, mature, decent person. I tend to reserve judgment unless and until a person is someone who spouts ignorance and crudeness all over the place, and then I assume they're ill bred and ignorant (which does not impress me in the least).

I don't care about hair, weight, color, money or anything else. Hair is often a matter of luck (and its only hair for goodness sake!), weight is often a matter of circumstances (stress or lack of it - and often weight is a temporary thing, such as in the case of Janet Jackson), color is a stupid thing to judge people on, money isn't the measure of a person, and we can't see someone's beliefs when we meet them.

I also judge people who are oblivious to the fact that there are other people in the world and who act as if they are the only ones in the world. How well people treat others, particularly children, elderly people, and animals are things I judge people on too.

Answer 3

First impressions are lasting. We tend to judge people by the character they express. Some judge on looks and obviously, beliefs are used by many around the world -- that's why we have wars. Human nature and our own actions tell us that if we, ourselves, can't seem to control our own lives, we tend to be more critical of others who also can't or won't control their lives. Eg. Certain health problems contribute to obesity. However, the best and most efficient way to control weight is to eat properly, exercise, and push yourself away from the table. If you don't care about yourself, then others don't think they should care as much about you. Personally, I TRY not to judge others. A kind word turns away wrath. Money is the root of all evil. Love of money feeds evil. Personal beliefs determine Character and, when combined with the multitudes, determines the state of the world.

Answer 4

Unfortunately, there are alot of people who judge on way too many things. And usually only the ones that are superficial.

One should judge (if they should judge at all) others on their personality, and heart foremost, everything else secondary. I think what one drives, owns, or makes (money wise) should be at the bottom...of another list.

Answer 5

I don't know that they do .... however, there are only so many things that help us judge another, that tell us how the other person is doing in life.

Answer 6

It would be good to live in a world where there is a non judgmental attitude toward others.

Answer 7

Weight, color, then hair

Answer 8

money, weight,color,believes,then hair

Answer 9

What about behaviour?