i wont go into any details of sex life but when your partner wants you to talk dirty what do you say .... i am usually speechless and clueless when my partner says talk dirty to me , ..... i am sure the physicial fore play is o.k and the visual fore play works too (porno) and the sensual fore play (cama sutra) but i cannot seem to get the verbal foreplay thing , so what should i be saying ? how do i talk dirty to turn my partner on ?
2006-12-29 05:32:20 · 28 answers · asked by insenergy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i couldnt find a catagory for this and no simmilar question asked either
2006-12-29 05:34:18 · update #1
Well you have quite a few good answers, but some people arent comfortable with it and if your not, you may have a problem actually saying the things which people have sugested. My husband likes it and i had to learn like you, now its a piece of cake. ...... Come on you horney bas**rd, get your hard c**k and ram it right into me, I want to feel every i*ch of you in*ide me -well words to that effect, just use your imagination ha ha.
I appologise if I have offended anyone who doesnt agree with verbal sex.
2006-12-29 06:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I cant actually talk dirty infront of my fella because I get embarrassed but its a lot easier through text. By the sounds of things your quite shy and if your partner wants you to do something you dont know how to do tell him- never do anything you dont feel comfortable doing. You should be yourself.
Otherwise... asking what he/she waring, what there doing what your sexual fantasys are and what youd like to do in the bedroom with him/her
- after answering those questions the conversation picks up and you carry on- but remember dont sound desperate and too slutty
2007-01-02 23:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your partner to give you some examples. Listen to what they say...that is usually a good indication of what they like.
There are so many things that could be said...but would be censored on here.
Good luck...dirty talk is a good way to get warmed up!
2006-12-29 05:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by ~Just A Girl~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking dirty is very personal to the person you are talking to. Ask your partner what kind of things does she wants you to say then elaborate from there.
2006-12-29 05:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off with something simple like Have you been a bad boy...do you need to be punished. roll playing is a good way to get dirty talk going
2006-12-29 05:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by C.M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try Jackie Collins - smutty enough for talking dirty but not too harsh for beginners - good luck you will be on a roll once you get started
2006-12-29 05:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable speaking dirty talk then you won't sound right saying it...so just tell him that's not your thing. But if you want to no matter what then say this:
You feel sooo good
You feel sooo good inside me.
2006-12-29 05:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with what you feel comfortable with and just say what's in your head. 'I love it when you...' is a good way to start without sounding like a 70s porn film! Once you start and feel relaxed, all sorts of filth will start pouring out! And when in doubt, get a bit drunk first!
2006-12-29 05:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by noisymilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cybering is a way to learn as its a lot of talking dirty etc.
2006-12-29 05:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mud,soil,grit,dust!
2006-12-29 05:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋