if my girlfriend have an intercourse with another person last night and deny to me how cand i prove it.
2006-12-29 05:17:52 · 20 answers · asked by arianarians 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can't...
2006-12-29 05:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you don't trust her, than even if she didn't do it you'd never believe her. You've already made your mind up about what she did, imagined or real.
Jealousy scans for evidence to prove itself right, the facts be damned.
The fact is that you can't control if she did it or not. You have to believe she didn't until you actually catch her doing it. Otherwise, you are just being neurotically insecure (meaning your insanely jealous).
If in the future you catch her and she was, than so be it. Leave her if you must. But to sit and obsess about it is neither emotionally healthy nor productive.
2006-12-29 13:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I understood your question correctly then I think you should bring it up in a conversation and tell her exactly what you saw!! If you only heard it from someone else I wouldnt believe it until I saw for myself.
Basically wait till you catch her in the act and then tell her its over between you and me. If you have no real evidence other than what he said she said then you really have nothing against her to prove what you are saying is true.
2006-12-29 13:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of alll if you think she is cheating then you can ask her if she denies it and you think she is cheating still then you have a inner conflict to deal with. and that is weather or not to dump her and move on ...
But now if she aint cheating and you think she is that might just be a insecurity on your part and if your that insecure then I hope she runs for the hills . cause a insecure partner is more like to become a controlling partner in a relationship cause they are always worried that when the other is out he/she is cheating .
2006-12-29 13:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by cliff_aka_colt_4_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of a successful relationship is trust. If you don't have that, then you don't have a relationship.
If she's innocent, than you're a jealous J@ck@ss.
If she's guilty, than she doesn't deserve you.
Either way, there is obviously a lack of trust. The question here is why??
2006-12-29 13:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Unless you were in the room and saw it yourself. Anything else is hear say. Sounds like you need another girlfriend.
2006-12-29 13:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you can't but most times people will repeat the behavior and will eventually get caught. I am sorry this happened and hope you are wrong. Good luck.
2006-12-29 13:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by janine b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't unless you get her to allow you to use a cotten swab on her hoochie hoo or take her panties and then run a DNA test.
Good luck
2006-12-29 13:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make fun of people with poor grammar.
2006-12-29 13:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inspect her private parts.
2006-12-29 13:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a psychic...
Or, take her word for it this time, n keep an eye on her.
2006-12-29 13:22:53 · answer #11 · answered by CHERRYBLOSSOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋