This is the deal, my sister met this guy through friends that I met over the summer. These guys where only in town for a few months because they where working on a job in the area. They rented an apartment next door to us. We hung out with them alot, and my sister and this guy liked eachother, problem was, he was married. They never did anything because of this, plus my sister was young (he was a few years older). Well, I guess somehow this guys wife found out about my sister and became extremely jeleous and accused them of doing things. This woman harassed me on my phone, harassed my sister on the phone and even showed up at my apartment (she lives in another state). Well this guy went back home about 5 months ago, and now all of the sudden his wife has made contact with my sister again on myspace wanting to know what really happened with them and accusing my sister of sleeping with him. I know this girl is crazy and she knows where my sister lives, what should she do?
2006-12-29 05:06:44 · 15 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When I say that she didn't do anything with him I mean SHE DIDNT DO ANYTHING WITH HIM! And yes, I will call this girl pysco because I don't have room on here to explain all of the other things this woman has said and done. She threatened to harm MY children at one point, because I told her to stop calling. I did tell her I was calling the police that time. And it is really my sister, not me....I have a husband and children, and he was there when we where hanging out, so for all of you who want to accuse us of being inappropriate....bite me.
2006-12-29 05:22:01 · update #1
Involve the police. File a report. I had this issue with an ex-girlfriend, and once she found out the police were involved she stopped cold...that is until a couple years ago. But at least she doesn't harrass.
2006-12-29 05:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Warm Custard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sad to see a women calling another women a psycho. She is married to this guy and thinks he's cheating. Wouldn't you go psycho in the same situation ? And what was a married man doing hanging out with single girls without his wife ? Why is his wife the psycho ? You and your sister got caught in the middle of it but cant you understand where she is coming from ? If you guys would just talk to the wife and let her know you understand how she feels and that she can be sure nothing happened, things would be much better. Wouldn't you want her to do that for you if you were in that situation ?
2006-12-29 05:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you blame a wife for being jealous? Do you really expect us all to believe "nothing happened"? Although I must say, this woman is going way too far...she needs to work this out with her husband...not your "sister".
And tell your "sister" something for me: If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you...I can promise you that.
Next, if she is really doing all you say she is, take out a restraining order on her. Let her know that her behavior will not be tolerated. And don't let her "bait" you into arguments. Hang-up, close the door, whatever. Tell her your next call is to the police. And then, do it. That should stop all this nonsense.
2006-12-29 05:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by Toots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she has no trust in what her husband does while he is away so she is trying to pick on you and the rest,,let her know in no uncertain terms,,this is the last time i will tell you,nothing happened,he said he was married and all we did was talk as people who know not a lot about each other,,,,do consider telling her if she continues with this action you will call the police,,,the chances are her husband has told her what he was doing and she doesnt believe him,,not your problem so tell her to sort her marriage and stop involving people who dont give a sh..
2006-12-29 05:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE HARRASMENT IS WRONG BUT PUT YOUR SELF IN HER SHOES, WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR HUSBAND WAS DOING THAT. WHAT WOULD YOU THINK. IF I WERE BOTH OF YOU STAY CLEAR FROM HIM, IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOUR SISTER DID ANYTHING WITH HIM, ITS JUST THAT HE WAS MARRIED AND THAT IS WRONG. FIND SOME SINGLE MEN OUT THERE. THIS WAY YOU WON'T GET THE HARRAMENT. BUT TO GET HER OFF YOUR BACK , JUST APPOLLOGIZE AND TELL HER THAT YOU HAVE NO INTEREST IN HIM, AND TELL HER WHAT HAPPEN. IF SHE KEEPS HARRASING YOU CALL THE POLICE, AND GET A RESTRAINING ORDER . AND CHANGE YOUR NUMBER.
2006-12-29 05:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell this guy about whats going on and hopefully he will confront his ex-wife about it. If she suddenly shows up at her house, then you better call the police just to make sure she doesnt do anything.
2006-12-29 05:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her!!! DO NOT answer her calls or respond to her messages!!!!!!!!!!!Save every voicemail she leaves, and every message she leaves on myspace.
Chances are she will just go away, but in case you continue to have problems, you will need evidence for a restraining order.
Good luck!
2006-12-29 05:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not expecting this to be your best answer but...is running away an option? You know, to a distant country like Cambodia to start a new life?
2006-12-29 05:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mad Scientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact the authorities, get a restraining order, be more careful of the guys she flirts with in the future.
2006-12-29 05:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by spankypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt this lady would actually 'do' anything to harm your sister.
just change the phone number, and dont answer the door unless she knows who's there.
ignore her, and she'll go away eventually
2006-12-29 05:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋