2006-12-29 04:55:24 · 11 answers · asked by honey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends are called that because what they are suposed to be. In the first place, I'm glad there is still sensitive people around, like you, and that is great.
Now, "Friendship" has taken many definitions, friends like prople you see ocasionally but don't talk too much to. And friends that will do anything for you and respect you in a very special way. If they are really "close friends" they wouldn't do anything that will hurt you, and if they do, then they aren't real friends, even though you would like to consider them that way.
I wouldn't trust them too much any more, be careful with what you say or do in front of them, and be patient, there is some wonderful people out there that really deserve your friendship. God Bless you.
2006-12-29 04:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, sentimental people are to be treasured, not trashed. I feel bad that you have been ditched, but this is a lesson that these were not FRIENDS by a long shot. How do you decide someone is your friend? By spending a lot of time together, the same interests in movies, books, games, etc. It's hard, I've been there.
2006-12-29 05:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Lou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i believe that these so called close frnds of yours are in for a big loss.all i can say is get yourself back together!first of all stop trusting people so quickly.change that habbit its really dangerous.secondly make those friends regret not respecting you by being happy and successful.i too had such friends whom i really liked and trusted but they would only use me and my niceness.i felt like a loser the entire time i was with them so i did just one thing i let them be.i stopped interfering in them and started living my own life.i got success.was very popular in school and made a lot of new and better friends.join some other groups or something and find better friends.these people werent worht your friendship!their loss not yours.and please darling get to know people better before you trust them!!gud luck and to hell with those friends!
2006-12-29 05:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were not your friends in the first place, why you ask? Because close friends don't ditch you, know matter what. They were just using you......so sorry Hun.....choose your friends wisely and get to know them better before you trust so quickly....be careful.
2006-12-29 05:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u need to change your self little bit. don't be a very sentimental be strong, brave and calm. Think twice before u make any decision. moreover you can get advice from wise people or from your parents regarding the decision but make your choice regarding their views. and one more thing TRUST EVERYBODY BUT DON'T TRUST THE DEVIL INSIDE THEM. its really find devil inside them so i suggest you to trust your self only and never ever be dependent.
2006-12-29 08:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by nil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey HONEY everybody r sentimental if u think ur u will react more so try concentrating on other things example thimk ur r very beautiful and u will think of tat and coming ti friends dont believe any one no one will really be urs try being close wit ur family members which will improvr ur realationship
2006-12-29 06:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more careful on who you trust. They must be trustworthy first. But do not let this cruel world change your kind heart. Just choose more wisely. Your kindness will be rewarded one day.
2006-12-29 04:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hai friend the only solution to your problem is to
=>gather the information from trustable older persons .If you dont have any one like that BRING A BIBLE TO YOUR HOME READ THE BOOK OF PROVERBS AT LEAST IT WILL GUID YOU WITH EXPERIANCE AND my friend pray to GOD for his protection if he is with you there is NOTHING TO FEAR
2006-12-29 05:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by eby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give time to know a person. time will offer enough tests to know how the person is. are u faithful to them by the way???
2006-12-29 05:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by dalal h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more picky when choosing friends
dont wear your 'friendship heart' on your sleeve
2006-12-29 05:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Luc P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋