2006-12-29 04:39:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Attraction is, in part, something physical. Therefore, it has a lot to do with how someone looks. And because our looks are greatly influenced by our ethnicity/race, it's normal to be attracted only to a certain group of people from a certain background. There's nothing wrong with that. I have friends from all different colors who I love very much... however, I only find myself attracted to white, latin or middle-eastern guys (there are occasional exceptions). Attraction is something you can't control... you're only being racist if you start thinking certain races/ethnicities are inferior than others - then it's a problem.
2006-12-29 05:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by restless_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to date only white guys when I was younger and was only attracted to white men. But recently thats been changing when i dated a guy that was mixed (wht/blk) for two years. It actually made me want to date blk men more. But anyway, its not weird, its personal preference and i also think who your comfortable being around can have some influence. Just be comfortable with your with and nothing else matters. No one else is gonna pay your bills so why worry bout what they think.
2006-12-29 06:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by W.E.S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey there is nothing wrong with being attracted to white men only. You haven't found a man within our race that appeals to you. There is nothing wrong with that. I am a black women as well and I haven't dated a black man in ages. My current bf is Asian...we are a rare couple but 100% normal. Love sees no color.
2006-12-29 04:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by phillylady4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a white women and i only date black women but i don't feel weird so why should u its just Ur preference
2006-12-29 05:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird at all, but you should really be attracted to people and the qualities they possess - not just their race. Perhaps many of the things you are looking for in a partner are possessed by a number of white men but you are not able to see them as readily in men of other races.
2006-12-29 04:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by Douglas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel weird. You have a normal fetish. Some white guys only have have an attraction to black guys.
There's nothing wrong with this.
2006-12-29 07:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel weird some of us white guys only fancy black ones or darker men. I don't feel weird about it. I can't respond to every guy that likes me just because he is white.
I think black guys can be great lovers and more.
So open your mind that is how we grow
2006-12-29 11:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by serge4hair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think theres anyhting wierd about it...n why do u feel so?its natural call from ur side...its not necessary tha tif ur black so u should black only or if ur white u should like white only......im also an indian..whos neither black nor dark still most of us like white....oppposites attract each other right?
2006-12-29 05:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think it is too wierd. I think it is just a matter of preference - The same reason I am attracted to skaters and other jocks. Just the way it is.
2006-12-29 11:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Christian P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's perfectly natural!! look at england, over half the couples over there are interracial - maybe you're feeling weird if your family or friends have strong views against it, but if it makes you happy, more power to you!!
2006-12-29 04:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋