hurts like mad but i need to get ova him!!! Like NOW!
2006-12-29 04:31:17 · 20 answers · asked by BeeBee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ther's no easy way of putting it but the honest truth is that nothing can help u get ova him. Time heals all wounds and even if you think you will get over him it wont happen very quickly. Talking to they guy and telling him how you feel is the best solution. Tell him that you dont want a relationship, just help in getting over him.
2006-12-29 09:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by The Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way unfortunately. it hurts like hell but it won't hurt forever. Keep yourself busy. i started to volunteer in a local charity shop when i was getting over a break-up n it did wonders for me. Talk about your feelings to anyone who will listen, write them down just get them out. I also agree with the advice to get rid of anything that reminds you of him if possible , and definitely get new sheets etc for your bed..if nothing else can be changed at least change the bedding. get a new hair cut n clothes..whatever makes you feel fresh n new. You could also try sitting somewhere quiet n writing him a letter, shout scream cry whatever you need n then burn it.
it will stop hurting eventually x
2006-12-29 12:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by serephina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy!
If there are friends you want to see, a course you want to do, a move you want to make DO IT NOW! You're a free agent and any changes you make are particularly sweet if they are things you always wanted to do but couldn't because of him. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for eating chocolate cake, drinking wine and sobbing into a pillow but for a week max, no more.
Get out there, even if it's not fun at first, it will be.
2006-12-29 12:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by noisymilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take anything that reminds you of him and get rid of it.
If it is something that might be expensive at least get it out of sight for now. Anything that can be burned..... get a fireplace and get rid of it permanently...watching the stuff burn away you can begin to imagine the memories and maybe even the pain itself disappear in the smoke.
Find someone else that you are comfortable with (gender does not matter) and just 'hang out'. Most guys dont like to 'let it out'... but most gals like to 'have a good cry'.
Do whatever makes you feel better in the end, and move on...
After awhile you'll be able to pull out the stuff you did not want to throw away or burn and dispose of it properly.
2006-12-29 12:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by wolf560 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, get rid of EVERYTHING that reminds you of him...No matter how hard it may be ( I just did this last month) delete the pics off your computer, burn everything else no matter what it is...Love notes, emails, pics, poems etc etc.....
Try and find a hobby. Make sure you keep busy. Friends are always great in times like these....
Good luck to you!
2006-12-29 12:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by dawson190154 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is any easy or magical answer, you just have to go through what you feel when you feel it! I wouldn't do anything rash or you might regret it IE burning stuff because you will look back fondly at the time you spent together!
2006-12-29 14:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by jumpin_jelly_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really is no quick fix to get over someone. the reason u go through it is so that it makes u stronger for the next time or it gives u the tools to help someone else thats going through wot u went through which really isn`t a bad thing
2006-12-29 20:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by groundhog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy with other things, spend more time with friends, look to reaquaint yourself with what is important to you and focus on you. As silly and slutty it might sound as some have already suggested, a one night stand would help you get over your feelings. Just don't be a whore about it.
2006-12-29 12:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by father of 4 husband of 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easiest way to get over a breakup is to get underneath someone else!! ; )
Good Luck!
2006-12-29 12:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ladybeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huge bar of cadburys chocolate and maybe a girly night in pampering yourself. It will get easier just give it time - just do not play any of those slushy love songs just yet
2006-12-29 12:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋