2006-12-29 04:06:23 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay so you like one of your guy friends! thats cool you be real with him tell him you like him cause there is a 50% chance that he likes you back. If you like him really bad you should tell him that "since we've been friends my feelings change bout you and i wanted you to know that." most chances is he thinks you dont wont to talk to him nomore so if he say something close to that be like "NO! I like you more than a friend i like you like a boyfriend" and then BOOM the magic happen after that...
2006-12-29 04:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Essence K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this situation in college - I had a crush on my "best friend" for like 2 years.
I asked him to come as my date to a party - knowing that I could play it off as friends if it got weird. He couldn't go, but I think he kinda got the idea. We tried, we kissed once (both blamed it too many drinks), but in the end - it was better in thought than in reality. You have to REALLY imagine yourself being with your friend. We would hang out the two of us, and whenever things started escalating beyond friends. . we got giggly and it was too weird for anything to happen. . just lots of close calls.
Eventually we both went our own ways, and unfortunately we couldn't be together and we couldn't bear to see eachother with anyone else. So when we started dating other people, we lost touch.
Its hard, and you have to be prepared for anything to happen. You can stay friends after if its just a crush. . if he's your friend he will understand. . but if you guys aren't as close as you thought, you could lose him as a friend.
What do I think you should do? Take time to think about it - make sure that having a shot with him is more important to you than the risk of what could happen if he doesn't feel the same way. If you really feel strong about him. . .find a way to let him know. If this is a crush like you have gotten on dozens of guys in the past. . .I would think it over a little more.
Good luck ;-)
2006-12-29 12:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Coleen429 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...I was in this situation. I just was myself around him and kind of hinted at it a little. We went bowling one night and when I turn toward him to say something he just laid one on me.....we are now 2 1/2 months away from out wedding. I would not just come right out and say it. People can be weird about things. Just take it slow and don't get all gitty around him...most guys i know would be turned off by it.
2006-12-29 12:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have A Wonderful Night!
2006-12-29 12:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if he likes u too. if he doesnt, then just stay friends. but if he does like u, go out with him. the oonly prob with that is if u ever break up it will be weird to be friends again. mmayeb u cud be friends with benefits, meaning tthat ur not his girlfriend, but u can still kiss him at the movies.
2006-12-29 12:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer this questions: do you think he likes you back? are you willing to tell him knowing that there is a risk of losing him as a friend? hope these two questions will help you with your decision.
2006-12-29 12:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him!!! it will be much easier to tell him cause you are friends and you know how to talk to him!
good luck
2006-12-29 12:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell em. maybe he likes you too, theres only one way to find out.
2006-12-29 12:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by frontlinenut13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jump him!
2006-12-29 12:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by bradxschuman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.
2006-12-29 12:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋