2006-12-29 03:19:36 · 22 answers · asked by saratvsb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u'r mind is u'r best friend
or
u'r mind is u'r worst enemy
... u choose whichever way
make a few good friends & learn to share u'r mind, u'r feelings
> the good & the bad ... sure lightens up things
choose to lead a positive way of life
i know from experience .... i live one day at a time
2006-12-29 03:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by sεαη 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is strength and a gift that was given to you and that was the choice to choose to get out in the world and meet people. I know sometimes having the motivation or the strenght to do it is easier said than done. As far as the emotions that are haunting you... causing you pain. Are these emotions that are from things others did to you??? if so you have to somehow forgive and move on.
If you don't find a way to do this you could waste alot of you life harboring emotions that can harm you mental and physical health. You need to find someone you can trust to talk to... that can be objective and nonjudgemental. As far as there being a place... the place is within you... I know this sounds lame but tring to find moments to truely relax, meditating as far as just focusing on the silence in the room, and a good friend you trust.
Wish I could be there for you one on one, I have been where you are and I had to just choose to find what I needed to be happy.
All this is called FREE WILL, the ability to choose.
I hope this helps, didn't know what else to say.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-29 03:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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My dear Sara. Lonliness is something we carry inside, you can even be a deserted island in an ocean of people. I bet you are surrounded by some (I said "some", by this I mean not even the majority) wonderful people, so the answer may be in your own block. Look harder.
Amy Lynn and John are right... Have you ever tried a relationship with God? If you did, try again, if you didn't, this is your time. I'm sure there is good Christian people close to you. Give it a try. God Bless.
2006-12-29 03:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by skydiver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not far from your own back yard, if you try to move on with yoor life and put those old feelings behind you. Carrying loneliness and bad feelings for long times isn't healthy. You'll probably find out life isn't so bad if you just get out from under the rock you've chosen to hide behind
2006-12-29 03:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 03:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by mcfee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-29 03:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Marcella D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
THE PLACE TO TAKE IT:
Counseling
Pencil and paper (write)
Parents
Friends
Church
Make New Friends
Volunteer (Seeing others less fortunate-Helping them helps you.
Take a walk (talk to God while walking)
Read a good Book
Bubble Bath with candles
THE PLACE "NOT" TO TAKE IT:
Food (overeating)
Drinking
Smoking
Bar
Sex
Work
2006-12-29 03:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The Holy Bible...It's called the book of life, you will find your answers and strength there. Ask God to help you, prayer works. Also giving back to the less fortunate will make you feel better and increase your self esteem.
2006-12-29 03:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Rita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start sorting out the problems in your head.
Stop being a pessimist.
Start being an optimist and make changes for the better. Nothing will change unless YOU make the CHOICe to change things to get better.
2006-12-29 03:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by lyssaria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try finding a hobby that will take your mind off those emotions. best of luck!!
2006-12-29 03:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋