ok..soo i have two best friends..jessica and dillon..i have known dillon since 6th grade..and we r now in the 9th grade..hes always been there for me....but this year jessica came along..ive known her since 7th grade but didnt really talk to her until this year..
....jessica is totally AMAZING and soo is dillon but i feel more comfortable talking to jessica about things cuz shes a gurl and we can tlk girly stuff....
so now theyre fighting over me and dillon feels ignored ..i dont wanna ignor him but i dont wanna ignor jessica either....
i tried to hang out with them both one day and it didnt work..they both wanted to do different things and sometimes didnt get along...they put alot of pressure on me cuz i had to choose either wat jessica wanted to do ..or wat dillon wanted to do...I DIDNT WANNA GET THEM MAD or make them feel like i liked the other person better .along .....I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! HELP!!
2006-12-29 03:05:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
May I suggest that you leave them both alone and spend the time you will save learning to spell.
2006-12-29 03:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by NannaNoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
switch off. on one day go shopping with jessica, and another day to the movies with dillon. or, in the same day, go somewhere with dillon and then have a sleepover with jess. if they keep arguing, tell them that they have to respect that u r friends with the both of them. they sound like really good friends, so they wud prob understand. as long as u give both of them equal attention, theyll stay ur friend. but, to me, it sounds like this dillon kid likes u more than a friend. maybe he wants to do things just with u because he wants ti ask u out when ur alone. but, i dont kno him, so it may kust be some close friendship thing. well, good luck!
2006-12-29 04:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would suggest in this situation that you talk to them both separately and explain to them what they individually mean to you. Be sure to tell them why they mean so much to you and let them know why the other person means so much to you, that you don't want to choose and you shouldn't have to. The three of you don't have to hang out together in order for you to be friends with both of them.... just make sure that you don't show favor for one more than the other, be sure to share your time equally with them, if they both appreciate and value the friendship they have with you as much as you value their friendship, they will understand and be fair about it with you. Friendship shouldn't be a competition. So good luck and I hope it all works out for you.
2006-12-29 03:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...eith find something you all three can do....like a movie or bowling... or swimming.......or set aside one night for dillon and one night for jessica.... i have two friends that we just cant all three hang out....it doesnt work ....so i go to one of their houses one night...and then the other will come to my house one night.... i talk to both of them on the phone...but they have no contact....they basically dont even care...im friends with two people who are separate...and it really works...just set aside one night for each...or two night for each...but if they really dont get along....dont put them together
2006-12-29 03:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by lil miss agony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋