Well yesterday I lost my virginity (im 17) and It feels different down there... My boyfriend used a condom.... I keep thinking about pregnancy and how i dont want it.... im sooo scared... (should I be) i really need good answers!!! THANKS!!!
2006-12-29 03:02:55 · 30 answers · asked by boo boo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am surprised people on this site can be quite cruel and callous.
Listen sweetie, If the condom did not brake or come loose, then you are most likely safe. Condoms are not 100% proof when it comes to sexual safety though, but I am glad you had the sense enough to protect yourself. As far as being scared, it is very normal and it is normal for you to feel different down there. Your vagina was closed and you never had a penis inserted before. You ruptured or stretched your hymen, and it is normal to bleed as well. If you are still concerned with pregnancy issues, I suggest you consult a planned parenthood clinic and get tested right away, the sooner you know the better the choices you'll have. While you are there, inquire about other possible birth control devices that are available. I wish you the best and be careful!
2006-12-29 03:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by earthstarlatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you ready for it? Of course you're going to feel different down there. If anything you're probably in a bit of pain/sore from the experience. You used a condom which is great for you both! Not many people have protected sex anymore. If you're truly paranoid about pregnancy but ready for sex then it's time to go to the OG/GYN, get an exam and get on birth control. Also, if you're uncomfortable and still sore down there for a few days, have the doctor check for latex allergies. Sometimes that can be a problem and of course being a virgin you wouldn't have known until now. Best of luck and do what's best for YOU...if your boyfriend truly cares and loves you, he'll do whatever you're comfortable with.
2006-12-29 03:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet losing your virginity will feel different. I hope that when you decided all this you were shore about. It's a good thing that your bf used a condom. Before doing this did you should have made sure about some things. Such as past sexual history. If your that scared about it go to a local clinic or doctor and get tested. They have an over the counter pregancy test that works after a few days. Don't stress yourself. Please be sure about sex in the future. Already your giving yourself a heart attack. These signs should give you some hints. Maybe you were not ready for this and need to lay low on sex in the future.
2006-12-29 03:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by giya_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to worry....it would be way to soon for you to feel any pregnancy symptoms and if he used a condom and it didn't break you are most likely fine. It probably feels different down there because it was your first time and your body has to stretch alittle bit...you may have even torn or bled a tiny bit from the penetration which would make you sore.
You might want to think about going on the pill for extra protection....condoms aren't foolproof because they can break or leak so it's a good idea to have a backup for yourself to give you some peace of mind. Hope that helps!
2006-12-29 03:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by kath_08012 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be way to soon to know about pregnancy. About it feeling "different down there" that's normal, you used muscles and such that you didn't know you had. And things stretched that have never stretched before.
Only become worried if it starts to itch and burn, it hurts to pee, or you have a lot of smelly discharge. That can mean an infection.
If you are worried about getting pregnant, I would suggest abstaining from sex until you are comfortable with the idea and/or get on the pill, I would still make him wear a condom as it protects against STDs and two forms of BC work better than one alone.
Good luck! and I'm proud of you for using a condom, even your first time. I wasn't that smart.
2006-12-29 03:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by sheldwyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you are feeling is common for someone after their first time. The realization of parenting and the responsibillities it carries can be staggering. If your boyfriend used a condom and it did not slip or break then you have a high probability of not being pregnant. I would suggest making sure you are comfortable with sex and the idea of sex before you have intercourse again.
If you feel you need to talk to someone you can email me back or try to find a planned parenthood in your area. I wish you the best and I truly hope that your mind and your heart will be at peace again soon. Be well and be happy...
2006-12-29 03:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by nhrideordie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, yeah you should be scared of pregnancy. You're 17...if you don't want to get pregnant, don't have sex. You may think you're old enough to be having sex, but are you old enough to have a crying baby wake you up every 2 hours at night? I'm not trying to be mean (I've been there and done that) but now that I'm older and understand things more, why? The consequences were there BEFORE you had sex and that should've been thought out.
As for feeling different...of course you're going to feel different. You were stretched and possibly torn so it's going to feel weird. It will go away with time.
2006-12-29 03:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Hootie562 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are only 17 have you been to the gyn and if so.. when is your next check-up? If not you can locate a health unit and ask about birth control and see what they recommend. Your best bet is to take all precautions, always use a condom even if you start birth control. This helps keep you save from STD's and gives extra protection from becoming pregnant. Do you have any one you can talk too, sister, Aunt, even your Mother. Asking questions can help you out alot.. and even protect your future. Good luck!
2006-12-29 03:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by luvthbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did the condom break? What do you mean it feels different down there? If you are a little sore, that is natural. Even after you have been having sex for years you can get sore occasionally. I suggest calling the planned parenthood. It can anonymous and you do not need a parents consent. they can give you a mroning after pill if you are worried that you may be pregnant. They can also give you advice and answer any questions you may have. It is possible to get pregnant anytime; on your period, the first time you have sex etc
2006-12-29 03:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by ridinghipshot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax!! I'm sure evrything is ok. If he used a condom and it didn't break, you're just fine and you can't be pregnant! But in the future you might consider birth control pills, because like I said condoms sometimes break and therefore they're not the most reliable protection!
And it's absolutely normal to feel different, now you're different (in a very nice way of course:)
2006-12-29 03:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋