I hate my boyfriends guts !!!!!!! Everything he does annoys me, and I don't like to talk to him, I don't want him to touch me and sometimes I hate that I am having a baby with him ! He is always nice to me he does whatever I ask, and I see how I am hurting him, even though he doesn't say anything. Even my mom tells me I am being ugly to him, for no reason. I know I love him, but I HATE him right now !! What is wrong with me ??? When will I stop being such a B***H ??
2006-12-29 02:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by Ladee_N_Texas 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This is my second baby, I was pretty mean with the first one, but this is all so crazy this time. I am just having a hard time controlling it, but I am not sure why. He seems to understand that it is my hormones, but I hate to treat him this way, he is a really good guy. I guess I need to know how to make it better. And he is the only one getting the rough end, I am okay to everybody else, except him.
2006-12-29 02:43:45 · update #1
Hey, it's me your husband. I put a comment on here about you. I said you are crazy, and I got some help from answerers. You should go read it Mean Ladee_N_Texas. It is good to know you know what you are doing to me and you are trying to fix it. We'll get through it, just stop being so mean to me !!
See ya in few, Love ya.
2006-12-29 08:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me....
I am normally a ***** anyway but now I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my 2nd daughter and I hate everyone and everything and am always moaning about something. My problem is I have an over active thyroid, Do you have any other symptoms?? If my medication is wrong I have, hot flushes, bad mood swings, serious attitude, the palms of my hand go red and blotchy. Your midwife can do bloods and you can have a thyroid function test. Our thyroid hormones do fluctuate during pregnancy.
Good luck xx
2006-12-29 10:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by SARAH S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You need to speak with a doctor, that being said, I think you should ask your boyfriend to just leave you alone for a little while. You definitely going to ruin your relationship with him if you actually do love him. If you're behaving this way because you resent him, you have a more serious problem. See if you can get some alone time, this may help put things in perspective for you. I hope your hormones get under control quickly. Best of luck.
2006-12-29 10:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lori E 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably not until your child is an adult! LOL! Everything you're feeling and going thru is normal, part of your hormones changing and rearraging for baby! Everyone thinks pregnancy is all about gaining weight and pushing. No one ever told you about the stuff in between huh? You'll be fine, just go find yourself a quiet corner or go get a pedicure when you feel those feelings start to surface. If he's a good guy, you don't want to scare him away from you and your lil joy, but I'm sure he understands!
2006-12-29 10:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your hormones are crazy when your pregnant. it's like an outrageous case of pms that lasts for 9 months. it is worse for some than others. you don't want to alienate your bf. try to talk to him because he does not know what it is like to be pregers. and you should try to recognize when you are being overly sensitive and walk away from him until it passes. it is a very difficult time but you need to remember that it would be even harder if you had to go through it alone.
good luck and congrats!
2006-12-29 10:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by miss lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be thankful that he is around, be glad for the things you have and stop being so selfish, he is just trying to help you and make sure you are comfotable. what i wouldnt give to have that, unfortuantly the love of my life whom i am pregnant by is with someone else and acts like its not a big deal, i just smile and go on with my life because stress like that is not good on the baby or yourself. try to relax and look at what you have, you love him, he's there for you that is all that matters.
2006-12-29 11:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by puppy love 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well at least you know that you are doing it and that its wrong. heres what you do. shut up. i know how rude but instead of bitching at him try smiling and nodding. if you can't talk to him with out bieng rude don't speak. count to ten when you start to get mad and tell yourself its not him its you. im not trying to sound mean but its the only this that will save you from being a single mom.
2006-12-29 10:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to calm down. your hormones are raging and you are out of control. you need to think about it. you are carrying a little miracle BECAUSE of him! he is the reason you are having a perfect little baby. you need to sit down and say honey I Love you and I am really sorry, sometimes my attitude just gets out of control. You need to let him be a part of the pregnancy, he would be proud and happy to be apart of it. you need to let him be a part of it. Please just TRY HARD to control yourself. what would happen if you lost him, if he just walked away and you had to raise this baby alone!!! think about the negitive effect this is happening on you and your relationship. Also the baby feels what you are doing, do you want him or her to act this way?! Good Luck honey! please pray!
2006-12-29 10:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy of 1, #2 on the way! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋