m i expecting too much frm my ex-gf?

Question

I loved a girl and she also loved me. she got married last jan.she had to do it coz of our family problems and we both decided to be alteast freinds forever. she promised me lots of things when we were going around like i will never forget u and will always keep u in my heart and life.

Its almost an year now but she has hardly called me 5-6 times that too for 2-3 minutes. she used to call me 2-3 hours a day when she was not married.

I can undrestand this now that she is married she cant call daily or for long but i accept atleast few calls a month. m i expecting too much. atleast as a freind she can call me.. thats my thinking

well all my frds says she is married now and she has moved on and i shud also but i cant do that to someone whom i loved so much n i still love her. i m not expecting much frm her just few calls a month..meeting once in a year as a freind. but she is not doing it.

wat do u think? she really ignoring me or she must have got genuine problems?

wat shall i do? pls giv me ur suggestion. i cant concentrate anywhere. i miss her like anything. pls dont tell me to forget her...its not possible for me. i wont listen to it..any other suggestions are welcome

wat shall i do? pls giv me ur suggestion. i cant concentrate anywhere. i miss her like anything. pls dont tell me to forget her...its not possible for me. i wont listen to it..any other suggestions are welcome

Answer 1

Listen, friend. I understand how u must be feeling. But she is MARRIED now, do u get it - MARRIED?
She has obviously decided to move on. As a friend and well-wisher, u need to HELP her move on with her own life and own family, not HINDER her. She can't do what u expect of her, even 'just as friends'. Nobody in her position would have been able to do it. She's absolutely not to blame.
What u need to do is to move on as well. Just accept the fact that u two r not together any more. Try to forget her. Move on. get a life.
indulge ur mind somewhere better. there's no use crying over spilt milk now, is there?
i know ur friends will help u get over this episode. only thing is that U have to decide. got it?

Answer 2

So you are saying that if she left her husband, and came back to you, then you wouldn't mind if her husband called her several times a week and for them to meet each other once or twice a month? Just as friends mind you. It would be alright for her to call him too?

So don't forget her, just push her to the back somewhere, where the thought of her only pops out once in awhile. It's easier to deal with it then. Find yourself someone who is available, that you can do something about! Unless you just want to stay miserable!

Answer 3

What the hell is your problem? You are crying like a baby. Are you 3 or what? Get over it and move on!!!! Mayhap some counseling would help but a trip to mexico and lots of tequila and strippers is my bet

Answer 4

i think that she is doing it to protect herself so that she doesnt get caught up with you and ruin her marriage. maybe she is worried that lust will get the better of you. i know that u dont want to move on, but if she is married...why sit there and put yourself through that misery. just go and get a job hang out with friends. meet new girls. get your mind off of her! its just not healthy i know guys who were like you who ended up stalking their ex just to see her...and it creeps every1 out. so please..just get over her.

Answer 5

sounds like your still deeply in love with her...