What if your friend is starting to get on your nerves, she comes to your house everyday only to eat my food and go on my computer. When ever she makes a mess she leaves it there for you to clean up, and she takes your cellphone and calls everyone that she possibly knows and your bill ends up high. Then just to top it all off you find out that she is talking to your boyfriend online about sex. I finally tell her to leave me alone and never come back and now i feel guilty. Should I feel guilty and say sorry??
2006-12-29 02:07:17 · 19 answers · asked by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i asked my boyfriend if he enjoyed the sex talk and he told me no...she was stalking him...she followed him to his house too
2006-12-29 02:28:10 · update #1
you could appoligize....but that _____ did do some bitchy things, i would call her and tell her she should leave you man alone and something about you letting her use your stuff and you thought she was your friend.....make her feel guilty
2006-12-29 02:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be guilty and be sorry. She deserve it. If she never show herself to you again, then she realized her fault and likely very ashamed to you. If she tries to come back, make sure to inform her of your limitations. She deserves a second chance but keep your computer, cellphone and food away from her if those things are the reasons why she kept on coming to your house. Better put a signage to your door "do not disturb" if you don't want her to come.
2006-12-29 10:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by wynx888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilty about what? That should've been a big relief. Like getting rid of a headache. Btw, was your boyfriend enjoying that sex talk? Cuz if he was, he'd be gone, too!
2006-12-29 10:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you F/n kiddin'? This is not a friend, this is a leach and you're a spineless creature if you allow her to continue treating you like that. You should take her to court and try to get some of your money back and then kick her *** a couple of times for good measure.
2006-12-29 10:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, if you don't it will never stop.
She's way to comfortable with at you're house. I have a best friend of 2 years and I still ask and pick up after myself. =)
2006-12-29 10:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that.. We used to be best mates until she met my bf's.. she'd be on their back all day and get jealous if my bf's bought me gifts and they felt uncomfortable that she made such a big show of her grumpy jealousy.
Friends like that will only make you angry.. I kept hoping she'd change and realise her selfish greediness but it never happened. She's not a real friend if she scabs and talks to your bf's about such personal things. Throw her to the lions.
2006-12-29 10:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by lyssaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!! No guilt, no apology! You're a nice person. Being nice comes natural, being mean doesn't. But there's a time for both. Your guilt is from being uncomfortable not from being WRONG. Kick her to the curb, and threatened to beat her down if she comes around again. If you need backup, let me know...
2006-12-29 10:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by eleven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not feel guilty!!!! If she's acting like a pig then you need to put a stop to it or else she's just going to keep up doing it....You got balls and I'm glad you put your foot down...
2006-12-29 10:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not feel guilty.. seems like she isnt really your friend but just someone who uses you
2006-12-29 10:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think u should feel guilty ... u did the right thing she was using u
2006-12-29 10:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋