i've been with my man 3 months now, and were almost like best friends. we talk about everything..deep things and random weird stuff...that others wouldnt understand our sense of humour. we clicked straight away. hes kind, calls me all the time and have great manners. he has his negatives and so do i but at the moment the positive takes over the rubbish....he told me the other day out the blue that he thinks he loves me...does that mean he DOES? what can he mean by "think"?
i THINK i love him too, but i know mean nd women are different. my THINK means i can feel it something deep between us growing...can he mean the same thing? hes on my mind all the time, i've met all his groups of friends and get on with them all..one of his guy friend fancies me though...(player kidna guy) and the day after his friend was tryin it on with me, my man said how he thinks he loves me...could his competitive side be showing and he really mean something else?
2006-12-29 02:00:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like infatuation. Please don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with infatuation it is just as important as love. Infatuation is what love turns into. I think what is happening to you is that you guys are falling in love. Being in Love is infatuation with each other. Have fun with it, enjoy this feeling, because if it turns into deep true love, you'll want to remember this bit. It's scary and nerve wracking when you're in it, but you'll miss it when it's gone!
2006-12-29 02:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by virgo2478 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither of you love each other. You have only known this guy for 3 months. You are both in the "lovey dovey" stage and everything seems great at this point. However, after six months you will both start to show your "true colors" and that's when you will find out if you love him or not. All relationships are great the first 6 months, it's what happens after that makes or breaks a realationship. I would wait a while before deciding if you love him. You do like him alot and there is nothing wrong with that. Love is when you don't have to question what he's thinking because you will already know. Thank you and good luck.
2006-12-29 02:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the short time you have been together you seem to have built a good relationship.
He might be saying he thinks he loves you but is not sure of your response if he came out with a straight 'I Love You'.
What is love anyway?
It is the constant wanting to be with the other person and thinking about them all the time, to be able to enjoy each others company and constantly learn something new about each other. Its both a physical and mental bonding that all us humans need in one form or another.
I wish you well whatever the outcome.
2006-12-29 02:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could mean something else. Or he could be waiting to see how you react before commiting to actual love. If he is used to playing games with women it could just a game. Too many if's for me. I would be very careful in believing he loves you for the time being. Just take it one day at a time. 3 months really isn't very long. after 8 or 10 months you'll know him better and will be able to decide for yourself.
2006-12-29 02:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats, this sounds like the start of a fulfilling relationship! It definately sounds like you love him, those were the kind of thoughts I had when I realised I loved my fiance a month or so after we started dating.
My point of view is that guys tend to be a bit scared of revealing how they feel, and like to 'test the water' before fully declaring their true emotions.
At least he didn't start saying 'I love you' after a week, then you would have known that he was talking out his ***.
Good luck hun, and enjoy what you have!
2006-12-29 02:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as though you have the beginning of a wonderful relationship going. since you have been with this man only three months i would say take your time. don't rush into a marriage. if he feels this way about you now, time will not change anything between you.
just ask him what he means when he says i "think" i love you. it sounds as though you must have open communication with him. again, how he responds will show the type of person he is. i don't think you have anything to worry about.
2006-12-29 02:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be competitive but it could be that he does love you and that hes trying to say that he dont want you to break up with him to go after his friend .. but honestly 3 months is too soon really to tell if you truely Love someone .. till you have been with them atleast a year i would say that its hard to tell i got married to my husband after a year of marrage honestly it was hard to tell if it was truely love or if it was just whati thought love should be i was 18 then when i married him took a year for me to realize there wasnt anything i wouldnt do for him .. and to realize what true love really is its more than just a feeling .. its how you are and how you act but reading how you and he are togeather reminds me of my husband and I and i think if you give it time you will find that you do love him alot and would do anything for him that you could
2006-12-29 02:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by jazieyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he says "I think" that means he isnt sure if its really love that he is feeling or something else. He might be also scared that your relationship wont be the same if you move it to the next level. Try bringing it the subject up again and see how he feels. And if he still feels that way, then maybe you two should talk and see if its ideal to move your relationship to the next level
2006-12-29 02:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt take his word for it, give it another 6 months and see if **** is all gravy still. By his friend busting move on u he probably felt like he needed to 'finalise' the deal by sayin he loved u.
2006-12-29 02:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called infatuation. Puppy love. Love's first blush. Hormones. Three months is not enough. Step back and just enjoy the friendship.
2006-12-29 02:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Stargatebabe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋