will my girl have sex with someone else? i am away from her in a far country ...she is religious and talk to me almost everyday...is it secure and possible for her to remain faithful until i see her 1 yr from now?
pls tell me something.
2006-12-29 01:37:09 · 23 answers · asked by Apelete M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I highly doubt that she will have sex with someone else if she is religious. Most religious people tend to be more faithful. You just have to have trust in the relationship and everything will be fine.
2006-12-29 01:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lori J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your concerns and see what she says. Good communication is the key in all relationships. Start out by saying: "I need to talk with you about something that's bothering me. You know how much I care about you, and I know you care about me." Then ask her this question: "But I can't help wondering if it's possible for you to remain faithful until I see you one year from now? That's a long time." If she is religious and talks to you every day those are good signs.
2006-12-29 01:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very possible. Are you able to abstain yourself? Sounds as if you are a tad bit insecure. That's not a healthy quality to carry into a relationship. It can be hard when you are so far away. But if it is really meant to be then you have NO worries. And I'm afraid that if you keep feeling theses feelings then you can ultimately sabotage your relationship when there was no need to worry to begin with. I know it's easier said than done. Just be honest with yourself and her. She will surely do the same in return. Please never accuse her unless you know she has cheated with 100% of your being. If she feels you don't trust her then her feelings for you will fade. Good luck and God bless both of you!
2006-12-29 01:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toss a coin if it makes you feel better because it is a fifty fifty shot in the dark that she will or won't be with someone over the course of that year . The only way to be sure is to take her with you or get over the fact that people are people and will do what comes natural .
Its a chemical thing and driven by the basic instinct for survival .
Work for a hotel some time and you will see hundreds of couples who are married coming and going who are not married to each other .They are well groomed average looking folks just doing what comes natural .
2006-12-29 01:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by -----JAFO---- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she CAN stay faithful. People do it all the time. Don't stress yourself about it. Talk with her and express your desire for you both to abstain from relations with anyone while you are apart. Keep in mind that she might have the same concerns about you. While you are in the other country you both should call, email, send letters and little packages. Continue to show your love for each other. If you don't see any behaviors that concern you, let it go. You can't stop her from doing anything. Just trust her and ask that she trust you.
2006-12-29 01:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by Apple21 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That totally depends on her. If you are going to worry about it, you will poison youe relationship. If you can remain faithful to her for a year, she can remain faithful to you. If you feel a need to stray, you have no room to judge her. You are responsible for you. She is responsible for her. Do not allow jealousy, especially of the unknown to interfere. If you love her, you trust her. It is that simple.
2006-12-29 01:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally possible. I am waiting for my fiancee for 5 years now being absolutely faithful to him. I still have 3 more years to go, and it is not a problem.
2006-12-29 01:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible for her to remain faithful with her being religious and calling you talking to you almost every day that shoes first with her calling that she misses you and is thinking of you and if she really is religious then cheating is very wrong to her and she wouldnt do that to someone she loves
2006-12-29 01:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by jazieyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether you're 1 mile or 5,000 miles away, she's either honest, sincere, etc., or she is not. You have to know the girl you're with, and you have to be with her now and again.
Nobody is going to be faithful for a year unless you keep the romance and love alive on a regular basis during your absence. Do your part and a decent girl will do hers.
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