I feel alone even with others. Actually in search of a good friend to whome i can share my problems.
2006-12-29 01:37:01 · 14 answers · asked by miya p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everyone can use one of those kinds of friends. I feel what you mean.. I had the same issue to, and i look among my friends. Turns out, some of them had the same issue as i. Just most other people dont like opening up. I'm in quite a situation myself, that im not really proud of, but to cope with the loniless, i keep it to myself, i post on Yahoo awnsers, and i try to keep my mind focused of life, work and school.
Keep your head up high though, we only get one life in this danm world, And no matter what comes up, we have no choice but to enjoy and embrace what comes to us.
- Tom
2006-12-29 01:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-31 03:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very common to feel like that. I would suggest that you take a long vacation, go to some place where you don't know anyone. Maybe you won't be that lonely in the company of strangers. I did this 6 years ago when I went off to Spain for three months, I learned the language and ended up making friends from all over the world.
2006-12-29 01:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by ponder2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Become more social and making the air clear by getting things off your chest with your friends. Join groups and social clubs. Volunteering is a great way to help and make new friends whom you share things in common with.
If you have real friends, they will help you. Do you have social anxiety? You must be envious of something or someone. But do this and I promise your life will better.
2006-12-29 01:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To avoid loneliness, U are waiting for a good friend to come into your life & in the process, U R losing out on your happiness.
Make the most of what U have! Try reading, going to the gym for a change. You'll feel better!
If U R destined to meet sumone, they will surely come into your life!
2006-12-29 01:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may sound cliche, but you can't find happiness or fullfilment outside of yourself. Look inside of you for it. You also may want to try meditating to help you find answers.
Do you enjoy any hobbies? Sometimes taking up a new hobby or pursuing an old forgotten hobby can not only bring inner peace and happiness, but can also open the door to new friendships with people who share the same interests as you do.
2006-12-29 01:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by dove5399 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel for you. I have always been a bit of a loner. I was welcomed in some circles but always found myself hanging on the edge if you know what I mean. I am still a bit of a loaner but it is more by choice now. I have friends but not really close ones. I write and that has helped a lot.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-29 01:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by toff 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me as if you are isolated. You need to get out a little more. Go to the movies, bowling, the library (just to name a few ideas) In those places you might see someone you know, go over and say 'Hi' and ask "Since we're both here want to see the movie together?" Or "What book are you reading?" You need to start a conversation for one to take place. And sometimes, just a smile can open the door for you. ~joni
2006-12-29 01:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by jonismuse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi friend
even i feel the same. sometimes i want to be with others , sometimes alone. either way i am not happy
2006-12-29 01:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think you are just exaggerating.you surf the net and still feeling lonely???just change yourself..make changes in your nature,behaviour and try to bring creativity and humour in your life..don't sound like a dumb person pls
2006-12-29 01:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by cinderella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋