my girlfriend came home early and caught me on the coutch wearing he panties.something i have been doing for about a year secretly.she is mad because she says i must be a sissy or something and normal men dont wear panties.i think they are more comfortable and i feel good about wearing them.should she be so upset and should i stop.
2006-12-29 01:35:07 · 15 answers · asked by markojarko 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It isn't as weird as you think. Many guys like to wear women's clothing and undergarments. I know I do...
Anyway, talk with your girlfriend about it. Explain to her why you enjoy it and see if she is open minded enough to understand. If not, you can always find someone else who is.
2006-12-29 01:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's probably pissed for a few reasons...
1. You're stretching her panties out! Anyone who's ever worn underpants that were losing the elastic or just worn and stretched will tell you how blindingly uncomfortable it is! And it's blatantly uncomfortable for those of us who must watch you shake, shimmy and twist to unobtrusively slip your saggy, baggy underpants from your crack to their proper location...
2. There are very few things that you can do secretly for a year that aren't going to piss your girl off...Taking cooking, dance or foreign language classes = GOOD...Wearing any of her clothes, making dirty sweet love to her sister, working as a male stripper = BAD...
3. Most people look upon cross dressing (male to female OR female to male) as a huge hint that the cross dresser is homosexual...this is not always the case. If you're just comfortable wearing panties, and feel good about wearing them than you should explain that to her. If it's about actually wearing panties that SHE wore, she might even be a little turned on...you might want to bring up the fact that you don't flip out when she wanders around in your boxers, or your old dress shirts...
2006-12-29 02:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by eXie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she could be upset because you didnt tell her. And think what other "secrets" are you hiding?? I think if my husband wore my painties i would be more upset he didnt tell me. Work on her she will like it, I think if men want to have a great relationship with a woman they need to share their secrets maybe they like it! And you should post this on relationships... And see that some "straight" men do this also.
2006-12-29 02:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comfortable in them then wear them. Your choice. She shouldn't be upset unless you didn't wash them before putting them back. Maybe you should just buy your own.
2006-12-29 02:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a crossdresser too. Go for the whole nine yards and tell her everything. Hopefully she will enjoy playing dress up.
2006-12-30 02:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'd be mad. I'd be confused and to be honest, I might giggle a little. But whatever, I steal my boyfriends boxers so fair is fair, I suppose!
2006-12-29 02:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by mistress minx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel comfortable in them then continue....you just have to help your wife understand that you prefer to wear he panties instead of boxers ect.
2006-12-29 01:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have talked about it and:and then would have avoided the issue at hand:you know what they say:honesty is the best policy.
Good luck with the situation.
Greetings:Rob.xxx
2006-12-29 02:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. i dont think she should be so upset about it, unless you are also gay, other than i dont think its a big deal.to me thats funny......if i were to see my boyfriend wearing my underwear i would burst out laughing. But if she doesnt want you doing that than you should respect that.
2006-12-29 01:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by blackbeauty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you love it, you should continue your fantasy and dump your girlfriend as she is not intelligent enought to accept you as you are.
All the best, mate!
2006-12-30 14:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by Calculus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋