Is this why?? Do I break-up with him??(see add'l details for more info)
2006-12-29 01:06:49 · 15 answers · asked by Hott Gymnast 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am falling for my b/f's friend. We have even gone out on a few dates and gone further than first base. My b/f doesn't think anything would ever go on between his friend and me. Is it because he trusts me or his friend?? I want to tell him but the next time I see him is new years eve. Should I tell him then??
Is it mean to break up on new years eve??
Should I wait until he finds out on his own??
2006-12-29 01:06:58 · update #1
I only went iut with his friend b/c I am worried we lost what we had and was trying to see if that was true.
2006-12-29 01:10:45 · update #2
Would you want him to tell you or would you want to find out for yourself? You should take responsibility for the choices you made. You are going to hurt him and you are already being mean... Do you really care?
2006-12-29 01:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by mzindica 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Phone your boyfriend and tell him that your feeling have changed for him and let him go now! Don't kid yourself in thinking that New Years Eve would be a bad time to break up. There is not a good time to break up. You cannot take it upon yourself to just let this keep going on. Your boyfriend deserves the chance to move on now!
2006-12-29 09:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by rhorho 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lead your boyfriend on. Even if it's hard, tell him the truth, or stop with the cheating. But if you don't love him, don't be with him for the sake of it. It isn't fair to either guy, or to you.
Also, does the friend know you have a boyfriend? It seems to be me that a real friend wouldn't do that to a friend. Maybe it's time your boyfriend reconsidered who his real friends were. What you and the other boy are doing to him just isn't right.
2006-12-29 15:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by orangefishcakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pshhh. You're a horrible, HORRIBLE little girl. Break up with your boyfriend NOW, not later. You're horrible for fooling around with his best friend, and his best friend is even more of a horrible person for doing that to his friend. Think about this too- if this guy can screw his best friends girlfriend, what kind of a person does that make him? Obviously you two are good for each other, because you're both pieces of crap, but just wait- this other guy will hurt you and you'll be all alone. And you can remember me when that happens.
2006-12-29 09:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you cheated on him then obviously you don't want to be with him, so just call him up and break it off. Get it done and over with so that both of you can enjoy New Year's.
2006-12-29 09:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by hwmabire3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have some serious issues. Really doesnt matter, because soon you will have lost your b/f anyway, and his friend is probably going to dump you as well.
2006-12-29 09:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
break up with him now than later
its better to tell him than to let him find out
atleast if you'll tell him then you'll leave the relationship with a little dignity
BUT **shame** on you and your bfs friend
anyways good luck with that
⥠candy-diva â¥
2006-12-29 14:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ candy-diva ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait-it will hurt him more. you can't stop your heart from loving so go for your boyfriends friend. just when you are dating your boyfriends friend-do't make out in front of him or make him jealous
2006-12-29 09:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should've ended it before you cheated. It will break his heart.
2006-12-29 09:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him today... on phone... atleast he can get a new date on new years eve then.. and u can start ur new year headache free and with a new b/f.
2006-12-29 09:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by sugar n' spice 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋