Is a lack of sex drive normal when in the first trimester?

Question

I'll be 8 weeks pregnant on Saturday and have almost no interest in having sex. I'm tired and have no morning sickness, so I'm pretty much ok. I don't know if this is normal because the first time I got pregnant 7 years ago, I actually had a "more-than-usual" sex drive. My husband's more than a little disappointed, and I don't blame him, but I don't want to lay there and not enjoy it. Any advice?

Answer 1

just relax and accept it will pass you are normal this will pass when your children go to school lol

every pregnancy is different wait for the honey moon period things will change then

Answer 2

I felt the same way as you do, my first trimester there was almost no sex....poor hubby....
Between being nauseous (it only started at about 7 weeks for me but continued until 4 months) and exhausted, and just kind of uncomfortable, I was just not in the mood.
The 2nd trimester was a little better, but still not what we were used to. Hope the libido picks up now as I'm starting my last trimester!!!
But every pregnancy is different, they say you can expect a change in sex drive, whether it's an increase o a decrease, either is normal.
As for what to do about it, hopefully your husband can understnd that you're not feeling quite like your usual self these days and will deal with a bit of a slow down for now - but try to push yourself now and then also to make an effort for him as you've got a very important relationship with him to take care of, not just a baby!!
It's important not to let your marriage fall second to the baby - a healthy & happy relationship between the parents is one of the best things you can give to your child.
Good luck.

Answer 3

Your hormones are all over the place right now. Having no sex drive or having a "more than usual" sex drive are all normal. I would ask him to be patient with you. Be sure to spend time together, even if its just laying on the couch! But make sure you feel connected and you will get your sex drive back in a few weeks.

Answer 4

Been there and done that! I felt horrible when I got pregnant because I went from a very, very healthy sex drive to nothing!

It's all your hormones going crazy. Some girls get the opposite end where they cannot have enough!

I'm finally starting to bounce back to normal. But, what you're going though is what many pregnant women go though. Especially since your body is working so hard anyways that you're exhausted.

Hopefully it's just a slump and it'll get back to normal eventually!

Good luck & congratulations!

Answer 5

Your body is going through a lot of changes, so the increased sex drive or the lack of it are all normal. Just think about all your hormones rising and doubling every day:)

I advise you to talk to your partner, let him know how you feel and ask him to be patient. Don't push yourself, take your time and wait untill you're ready. If he really loves you and respects you, he'll wait for you as well.

Answer 6

your hormones are going through a big change. It's very normal to have no interest in having sex. If you feel it is causing a big problem you may want to talk to your dr about it. There may be something to help you. Many women change later in pregnancy. Usually women are more interested in it. Try different things. Good luck and keep your head up.

Answer 7

Don't feel bad, I am 18 weeks and have no desire for sex either. Your hormones are going crazy right now. My doctor said some women get where they want sex 24/7, where as the other women do not even want to be touched.

Answer 8

Yup its normal.With my first child i had unbelievable sex drive but my second absolutely none at all. tell him to be patient you may get it back in your second trimester.

Answer 9

yes I found in my last trimester that my hormones were raging