Don't husbands and wives get bored with each other after some time? You see the same face everyday, everynight

Question

I mean, you see the same face everyday, everynight. Wake up every morning and that face again. Surely that would be boring, wouldn't it? I'm just curious.

Answer 1

I guess that is a matter of perspective and a matter of commitment. You and the "same face" can surely get bored if you don't work as hard on making a relationship last as you did finding or developing the relationship to start with.

And from what I read hear, boredom is apparently a reason to have affairs, get divorces, and otherwise wreck lives.

My advice, with you line of reasoning, DON'T get married.

Answer 2

When you find your one true love there is nothing that can replace the heart and spirit of that person. There are such loves and they take a great deal of work but they are well worth it.
From the expression I see of older couples that is what I want.
The years of building a relationship to that point took many hours of attention caring compassion. Love and giving of oneself.
Two make one in that area when there is that kind of closeness that the two share with each other.
The gift of each others love only grows with time, and they find the more they give, the more that they have to offer each other.
Although giving from the heart can be much more challenging and demanding of our spiritual resources, it can also be much more rewarding. It is important to remember that abundance comes in many forms – the bounty of what we have been given applies to our spiritual selves as well. Sharing the love that we have in our souls with another gives them a greater gift – one that may last longer than any material item. Offering your love today is truly a generous way to share the abundance that the universe has given you. If this is done by both you have the best of all relationships ever and no amount could ever replace it.
Millions have seeked it. Few have found it.

It may sound corney but its just my sentements.

I hope that I can find that kind of love and keep it.
Sure is something that I am looking forward too.
Happy New Year

Answer 3

You must be single or unhappily married.

After seven years with my husband, six of them married, I'm still excited to see him when he gets home. There's a certain security in knowing that I'll see his cute little mug every single day and that we've chosen each other to grow old with. I recently visited my home town and was away from my husband for two weeks. It felt like I'd been gone two years, and made me appreciate how good we have it as a couple. We've agreed that we'll never be apart that long again.

It boils down to the strength of your relationship. If it's a good one, you may want some alone time once in a while, but to be bored to tears waking up and going to sleep with the same person day after day, year after year? No way!

Answer 4

Not if you love and care for that person. It is a 2 way street for both. Spontaneity is crucial. Go out together - get tickets for anything that you both would enjoy, make a date night once a week, see other people/couples, each take time out for yourself with doing something enjoyable. Remember little things that the other person might like to find somewhere to surprise him/her. Good Luck! It takes work but if the relationship is good - things will work out. Life can become mundane but only if you let it.

Answer 5

WHOA! Now isn't that shallow, and aren't you going to be a cheating little H**. On to the realy answer, Affection isn't only skin deep and if you belive that your a *****, Affection is deeper, it's emotional, You connect, You feel, Love is a feeling, It's and emotion, and that emotion shouldn't be ignited only on looks alone, it should be ignitied on similaritys, Nobodys perfect, but when you are both alike yet different in certain ways, you connect, it's the most imposible thing to explain in the world. and basicaly you saying Love is purely Physical and eventualy they don't look so good and you need to find something new. NOOOOOOO SHALLLLLLLOOOOOOWWWW. Don't think like that because it's completley wrong. Good day!

Answer 6

It all depends on how the husband and wife makes it. Yes it could get boring when you dont add a little spice to your life, then again for some people its just a new adventure everyday. im married and honestly, im no way close to being bored!

Answer 7

After 22 years together (18 married), my husband is still the person that I enjoy being with more than anyone else. (Except the grandkids). We talk and laugh and are best friends. No, it's not boring at all.

Answer 8

Yes, most people get tired of their relationshp but if you love a person, you work through that and you grow to love and respect that person. However, it's called Comfortable. You're comfortable around the person you're with. I wouldn't suggest going out and having an affair, they never solve anything. Maybe try to make your relationship fun, do something different, have a blast.

Answer 9

If you love the person, you look forward to waking up next to them, seeing them everynight, kissing them everyday, and talking to them everyday. I've been married for 3 years, I still look forward to every minuete we get a chance to spend together, between work and the kids, we dont get enough time toghter. I'm looking forward to seeing his sexy smile, and getting his sweet kisses for many years. Don't get me wrong, we do have our days when we fight, but we get over them.

Answer 10

Not if you marry the right person. You need to have some things in common but also need to pursue your own interests, hobbies, etc. If you are with someone 24/7 then yes, it probably would get monotonous. That is why you need to retain your own identity and interests. But at the same time you need to find common interests with your partner and spend quality time with them too.