2006-12-29 00:48:15 · 22 answers · asked by fairytale 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
depends on the relationship and on whether you also like men.
2006-12-29 02:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It depends on a lot.
Are you female? If so, you're probably bi or a lesbian, and frankly only you can make that determination.
Are you male? Then you're still straight. I know some lesbians who sleep with men who still refuse to admitt that they are actually bi and call themselves lesbians.
Is the relationship sexual? Are you just friends? Is either of you trans? There are just too many variables for a stranger on the internet to tell you the answer. Look around and inside yourself, because the only person who can really know who and what you are is YOU!
2006-12-29 14:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you be a little more clear please? when you say a relationship, do you mean a friendship, a co worker or what? if you mean a sentimental relationship it depends if you have any type of physical contact that leads to lovemaking etc then you may be a lesbian, but do you like men? if the answer is yes and you are attracted to this woman then you may be bi sexual.
2006-12-29 09:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness, I hope not! I got drunk with a lesbian one hot summer night and when we woke up early the next morning we were naked in a rowboat in the middle of a big lake without any oars. It's a good thing she was butcher than I am because it took the two of us to push the boat back to the dock naked swimming in the cold water with a hangover. What was the question again?
2006-12-29 10:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. no more than having a relationship with a man makes you straight. Sexuality isnt defined by our actions but by our inner being. im gay, if i have a loving relationship with a woman it doesnt make me straight. many gay men in denial try this and remain gay but only cause a lifetime of stress. if a straight man has sex with or even dates another man (gay or straight) it doesnt make the first man gay. it is about what a person feels inside. i am turned on by other men sexually. Depending on what attracts you, you may be straight, gay, or bi.
I urge you to not care so much about labels though. "gay" is just a label we give people to try to group them with other people so as to make comparisons and understand things better. just be happy with whoever you're with and leave it at that. its the only way to happiness.
2006-12-29 11:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by defenderof thehumanright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. If you count kissy-feely, nope. It's the same if you were a drug addict, just because you shoot up or snort it up your trunk, you're just showing everyone how easy it is to stop. That is if you wanted to stop, right? Alcoholic can drink and drink just because their thirsty. You're up the 'DE-NILE' river without a barge darlin'. Unless you're a guy, then you're a well hung lesbian sympathizer.
2006-12-29 11:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you enjoy it or was it just experimentation? If you actually liked it and are with the woman because you either love her or are sexually attracted to her then yeah you are either bi or a lesbian.
2006-12-29 17:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a male it would be no. If you are a female you could either be straight and experimenting, bisexual or lesbian.
2006-12-29 10:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not really. u might be experimenting. or u might be sincerely attracted to her and in love with her, but that is to her personality and her mind, not her sexual preference. u could be doing something u won't repeat after u break up with her. But u can also be either bi or gay. only u can know and answer this question. talk to her and other friends who know u to get things clearer in your mind. I say if you're comfortable with this, that is the most important thing, not another way we find to label ourselves...
2006-12-29 09:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Changed by Lithium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all, There is a thing called being bisexual or even bi curious, being with a girl does not make you a lesbian, your probably jus experimenting or just PARO lol :)
2006-12-29 09:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, and it's best not to be hung-up on labels, like "lesbian." Do what comes naturally to you and do not fear labels or stereotypes others project on you...
2006-12-29 12:08:06 · answer #11 · answered by bot_parody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋