my bf of 2 years just broke up with me,and the whole lunch table knows i still like him and he does too,but hes dating my best friend now,and my best friend knows i still like him but she likes him and he likes her,and he was keeping it a secret from me bc he thought i would want to kill her then him....but secrets dont make friends
right?????
do you think im trying tooooooo hard to be his friend???
should the three of us still be friends???
2006-12-29 00:42:18 · 28 answers · asked by ihaveissues 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think that if he thought that there probably was a trust issue in your friendship with him. and if the other friend knows that you like him and yet she stills go with him she doesn't love you and is not a good friend. i would get them to together and the three of yall talk and don't push too hard cuz that will ruin any chance of yall getting back together. and if that doesn't work they nobodies in your mind. i know it will hurt but sometimes the best thing to do is to let them go.
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2006-12-29 01:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by walmart_parakeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be friends, but you might want to put some distance between you until you've overcome the romantic feelings you have toward your ex-boyfriend. Jealousy isn't something that makes anyone happy... So, I think you did the right thing by staying friends with both of them. Just don't be around them as much if it hurts you. Learn to adjust to the idea that they're boyfriend and girlfriend without giving into jealousy feelings. Just learn to be a real friend and forget about the past.
2006-12-29 08:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by faithloveseternally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him a way to passoff
and dont feel any thing for such person who keept secret from you
no way you can be friend to them coz if your female friend know that you love that guy why she try on him...........
maybe you have some thing better then this two people and one more thing dear world dose not end on this two people okey so forget them just like a clear sky after rain okey
be happy in ur life never let them know that u still care about him or her okey
bye take care of ur self
2006-12-29 08:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. That is a recipe for disaster. The other woman will loathe every minute the three off you are together. He is in the middle and whichever way he turns, he can't win.
This causes terrible situations. Leave gracefully and move on. Be friends if you like in the sense of "don't be enemies" but anything beyond that is a real problem.
2006-12-29 08:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If noone has never told you, it is wrong to date your best friend's ex-boyfriend. To be honest, you should just move on. Your best friend should no longer be called your best friend or a friend at all because she pretty much stabbed you in the back by going out with your now ex-boyfriend. You have a whole life ahead of you so make new friends and a new boyfriend will come your way.
no you 3 should not be friends.
2006-12-29 08:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by stergre1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of both of them.
If you want to be friends with them, then you will probably need some time away from them. Cause otherwise it will eat you up inside.
Like my guy friend said to me "you never date your friend's ex. ever"
Sounds like they are purposely keeping things from you. Friends don't keep things from you. Especially if they think its in your best interest or would hurt your feelings. No, friends tell you everything, even if it makes you sad or angry. They are not your friends.
Just be nice to them and walk away. That way if they do anything mean to you, then everyone will see that those two are the horrible ones that treated you like dirt.
2006-12-29 08:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be very difficult if u really want to stay friends with both of them. But u'll need to give it time. Don't rush in or try to force it, because that would only make it hurt more. By doing this you will at least be able to think.
Also you should take a close look at both of them and bump them down from friends to acquaintences. They betrayed ur trust remember!
2006-12-29 08:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Buddha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of FRIEND dates your ex boyfriend???? Get rid of both of them, neither one of them has any care or concern for your feelings. Friends should last forever. They always have your back. Boys come and go, until you find the one who is a friend to start and becomes the most important friend you have. You're better off hanging with people who respect you, they obviously do not!
2006-12-29 08:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Perhaps later friends can reconnect but not now. You sound too young to be wasting energy on this. It's all part of the cycle of growing up and it probably won't be the last time you'll find yourself in this situation.
2006-12-29 08:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by father of 4 husband of 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its ok if you three remain friends who ever said that people who where once lovers can not be friends.you should not hide your feelings because it will eat you up inside but you should not be too friendly that you make your friend jealous and the last thing do not keep secrets in your trinity friendship or its going to cost you both your friends
2006-12-29 08:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by potom5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋