Japan! Wild life. not from xperience, but my husband is having the time of his life. It seems like a sin f i were 2 nvite myself. My h was go n out evrywknd until I left him 2 wks. He stressed he wasnt happy, wanted life back, and it was over.He told me to take everything. I left, took $ from acct.he agreed to counseling I came back, still attending, thought it was get n better, but he startn back up again.2 days aftr I left he met a jap girl in mid may n i came back at end of may asked him if he were nfolved he said never kissed, never had sex,nothing but to my knowledge it went on til Aug. No, he dont trust me b/c of the $ but if I were 2 leave I would go about it a dif. way but y bring it up 2 this day?
2006-12-29 00:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Jerry S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he still has issues and you need to continue the consueling if you really want to it work out.
2006-12-29 00:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one mixed up chick. How old are you and can you actually write complete sentences without all the numbers and choppy codes? It's annoying to figure your question out...probably your personality...which is the main reason why your husband is having 2nd thoughts about you. My suggestion, go back to school, get a proper education and keep your legs closed until you have enough common sense to make any life altering decisions....MmKay?
2006-12-29 00:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be honest. Are you the type of person who enjoys drama in your life? Because if you do, you can leave this guy (which you should), and you'll just meet some other guy and re-create the drama again and again. Maybe YOU should go to counseling too. Can't hurt.
2006-12-29 00:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alexandra L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should leave and start a new life for yourself,you deserve way better!take some time to get over him then concentrate on what you want and need and only go out with men that make you feel good about yourself,and that want to make you happy!
goodluck!
2006-12-29 00:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to understand that is not love that keeps a relationship together it is commitment. I don't see much evidence of him being committed to you and the marriage Is he willing to go to counseling and both of you need it. Nothing will change unless he is willing to open up and realize he needs a lot of help.
2006-12-29 00:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Roger W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither of you are happy with the current situtation. I think with everything that has happened it would be best to move on.
2006-12-29 00:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by ~*SuMmEr*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proper sentence structure, spelling, and composition with respect to grammar will solve many of your problems. Then come back and as a question that doesn't need to be deciphered.
2006-12-29 00:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't play his game, there is to much other life in this world. If your unhappy then leave. Don't let him toy with your emotions like that..
2006-12-29 00:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ray8l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good God Almighty and people wonder why I stay away from relationships and why marriage is the last thing on my mind!
2006-12-29 00:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhm get someone else on standby incase it dosent work and have your standbye on check and gittem to start giving you money and that way the other one feels like a loser when he sees you
2006-12-29 00:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by rooster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋