2006-12-29 00:26:14 · 15 answers · asked by radion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If youre even considering giving up your present life then it cant be all you want in life. Take some time to think about whats important and what youre going to lose by giving it up. Just be aware that the problems that were around the first time you date someone are often still there when you return, so be careful.
2006-12-29 00:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how much she means to you and do you see yourself in a long term committed relationship? It also depends on what you have to give up. If you have to move to another city or country, it could be appealing at first but when reality surfaces maybe it won't be a wise decision especially when there is family involved. It is a very important decision and one you need to see all the pros and cons and check out all that what ifs. I would say whatever makes you happy....Live for today and live without regrets. The key though is you shouldn't have to give up anything unless it is by your own choice (especially your present life, that is alot to give up) but we only learn that as time goes on. All the best in your decision!
2006-12-29 00:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by timeless_echo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont rush in,remember the song.take things slowly to make sure the flame steadily grows larger and larger,if the flame is still growing after a year then you have possibly found a life long partnership,but 1 half of a relationship should never give up their life,you will both still need to do your own thing and have your own freinds.good luck:)
2006-12-29 00:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not move in with her until you are married. Give the time between gf/bf and marriage the respect it deserves. If she lives far away carefully decide if this move is wise for the both of you and if you can support yourself if it doesn't work out for any reason. If you move, move to an apartment/rent a house close to her but allow enough space for you to be an individual as well.
2006-12-29 00:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay---this is recent and the flame has grown larger? If you're really sure this is going to work out--go for it--
2006-12-29 00:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel is wright, go ahead I dated my fiance for 4 mo and then we decided to move in together, i knew it was too quick but i took a chance, here we are 3 years latter and still thinking abut our future together. sometimes is worth giving some things up. but until you make the move you wont know if this is your true love or not, or if you would like to spend the rest of your life with her. just make sure she feels the same way. good luck.
2006-12-29 01:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by shaquie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends upon a whole lot. How old are you? How long has this been going on...Why do you have to "give up" your present life. What is your present life? Think with your brain not your hormones.
2006-12-29 00:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by emmys momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give this time - take three months to explore the situation gently and thoroughly before taking dramatic action you might regret. Think very hard about what you're giving up as you may want to retrieve it later but find it's too late..
2006-12-29 02:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your present life?? Are you sleeping on the subway? Park bench? Eating out of trash cans? begging on the corners? Or have you recently won the Lotto?
2006-12-29 00:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the grass always appears greener on the other side of the fence. Think carefully about what you will actually be giving up before you do anything.
2006-12-29 00:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋