TRUST
2006-12-29 00:09:39
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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The other person is getting the true love.
2006-12-29 08:10:04
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answer #2
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answered by Pinolera 6
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Oh, my, if you are referring to a "romantic, sexual" love, if someone is truly in love with someone else and loyal to that person, it just will be impossible.
If you are the one in love with another person and that person is in love with someone else, honestly, just forget it, and move on.
Even if you were successful in breaking them up, it just would not be a good thing to do in life.
Let their relationship take its course. Move on with your life. Go out with friends as often as possible and put yourself in a position to meet as many new people as possible. You will meet other people, hopefully a great person to have a meaningful relationship.
If by chance this other relationship does not work out, and if at that time, you are "free," then at that time, take the opportunity to let that person know that you care, but take it slowly, as he/she could be on a rebound.
Honestly, in life, when you choose to do the "right" thing versus the "wrong" or "selfish" thing, you will see (maybe at a later time though),,,, that you made the right choice. So often in life when you choose to do the "selfish" or "wrong" thing, it only comes back to haunt you.
I believe in Karma. Do you?
Good luck to you!!!!!!!
2006-12-29 08:15:59
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answer #3
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answered by Peekie 2
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Get true love from the person who don't love anybody else....Why disturb them ..... moreover there no chance if he really loves someone else..
Listen, there's certainly someone who's made for you ..Just wait for him n hope for the best...Good Luck !!!
2006-12-29 09:14:38
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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You can't make anyone love you and nobody can make you happy. Whew, is that ever hard to buy. I can already hear the screams of protest: "What do you mean you can't get anyone to love you? What a depressing thought! You mean there's nothing I can do to get my wife to love me? What are you saying? There's no love in a marriage? If so, why get involved with someone if they can't make you happy! Why are you telling us this depressing garbage?"
Well, the truth of the matter is, it's not depressing; it's liberating! Here's how:
First of all, we've all been hypnotized into believing that our true love will heal all hurts. All we need to do is find our handsome and brave Prince Charming or our beautiful and compassionate Snow White and magically all pain will disappear. Our perfect love will know how to give to us unconditionally; will be devoted to making us happy and will anticipate and meet every one of our needs and wants. Our perfect love will heal all our hurts and will be infinitely patient with every one of our shortcomings. This compassionate and giving spirit will have one goal in life: To give endlessly to make us gloriously happy.
If there is anyone among us who has such a partner, please post it on our bulletin board. It's more rare than a snow leopard. The statistical probability of finding such a pure soul is about the same as a forty-two year old couch potato quarterback being drafted by the Dallas Cowboys. Sorry, but life just ain't like the movies. Your average hooker doesn't marry a billionaire Richard Gere look alike.
So here we are. We find what we think is our best chance for marital bliss and in the end our partner just doesn't deliver the goods. Here's the problem. We both think: It's my partner's job to make me happy. What results is a battle between two unhappy individuals, each of whom believes that his or her needs are more important that the other's. So while he is worrying about getting his needs met and she's worrying about getting hers met, no one gets any needs met. Sorry, a relationship is not about getting someone to love you.
John Kennedy said it perfectly, "Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country." I don't know if President Kennedy was aware just how revolutionary that statement was. It in essence said, Don't focus on your rights. Rather, focus on your obligations. Don't be a taker. Be a giver. The country's strength is based on the willingness of its citizens to give of themselves for the common good. A rather strange idea in this age of Me, Mine and I.
What Kennedy said about the country can also be said about marriage. Ask not what your partner must do for you. Ask what you can do for your partner. I'll let you in on an interesting marital secret and truth. The foundation of a relationship is giving. To create a successful, loving relationship we need to be guided constantly by the question, What do I need to do in order to create a loving relationship? By letting your spouse's needs be at least as important as your own, you'll begin to develop true love. I'm not suggesting you make this shift so you can use it as a manipulative technique to get your partner to love you. What I am saying is that it's natural to give to one who gives. It's easy to love someone who loves.
I'll finish with this suggestion: For one week focus your attention on giving to your partner. If you don't know what your spouse needs, ask. Try to think about what you can do that your spouse will most appreciate and then do it. Notice how he or she responds. Tell us about it.
2007-01-02 06:43:34
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answer #5
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answered by ? 4
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c ,love is not just gaining but also sacrifising....
if u really love...keep ur *** shut.....n dont try to to spoil other relationship.........
n tht person even at all turnz for u...than tht persn he/she can never be ur true love,bcaz tht persn can leave a personhe was in love,than wat the surity tht person will turn u down sum day,for another person......???????.....think abt it dear......
MERE ATTRACTION IS NOT LOVE,LOVE IS BUILT TRUE ONE, BY TRUST HONESTY,CARE ,RESPECT N UNDERSTANDING......
i said u only if u r from india...bcaz here v r bound with relationship.....
but if u r from other country...i knw these u might never heard off,
as in west a person min marries 10 times in a lifetime...n divorcee is a fashion ,so i dont know,wat can be love means which is true ther????/
2006-12-29 09:09:34
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answer #6
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answered by unlucky hand 3
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If they love somebody else **** off and leave them with their happiness!
2006-12-29 08:10:39
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answer #7
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answered by Anonymous
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If they love someone else, leave them alone. They're happy. Don't screw up a good thing if you really care about them.
2006-12-29 09:16:04
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answer #8
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answered by Lotus 6
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so ur getting false love now from him...... love can not be true or false...... somewhere he must be loving you... but in a different form as a freind.... or as a person who loves him too.
2006-12-30 05:00:57
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answer #9
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answered by pallavi n 1
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You don't, you stop thinking selfishly and move on with your life. And leave them alone. They are already in a relationship. God bless****
2006-12-29 08:10:53
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answer #10
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answered by ? 7
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not possibble, your wasting your time and energy. if they don't love u, than u must accept it for what it is and stop trying to manipulate things.
2006-12-29 08:18:42
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answer #11
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answered by jude 7
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