Yes, I'm pregnant...
It's like, I get mad at him for what, at the time, seems like a great reason... In hindsight, though, there really IS no reason. I get PlSSY and crappy with him for about two hours, and then I start bawling my brains out.
I don't know how to keep from getting mad, though... Normally, I'm very in control of my temper, but here lately, I'm anything but. Any advice you could give would be appreciated... I don't want to wreck our marriage due to the fact that my hormones have made me lose my damn mind.
2006-12-29 00:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by <3 The Pest <3 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
LMAO -- sorry, but I can remember those days!
Try to remind yourself your hormones are out of whack and when you feel yourself boiling over walk away. Talk to your husband make sure he understand that this is "preggers insanity" and it will pass.
My poor husband put up with alot of my insanity when I was pregnant - I once threatened divorce and cried for three hours because he wouldn't do our taxes on the night I wanted to do them.
It will pass - I am not sure how far along you are, but it tends to level out the second trimester and part of the third - then gets rough again when you are in the last few weeks. Try to approach it with as much humor as you can!
2006-12-29 00:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Susie D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I so understand where you're coming from!!!
I'm 27 weeks now, and although it's definitely worse duing the first trimester, the second can be much of the same as far as the hormonal insanity goes.
My poor hubby has put up with so much, mostly me just all of a sudden breaking down and crying for hours - for no reason that even I can think of!
And lately I get so angry and frustrated that I even have dreams about fighting and arguing with people!! (mostly my sister-in-law and mother-in-law...!)
I just try to let my husband know that I don't know what's wong, that it's just the hormones, and that he's not doing anything wrong, whenever I can. And he knows I need a little more attention than usual, especially since I've been on a preventive leave from work since I was 12 weeks and am getting a bit stir crazy in the house without much to do.
I think all you can really do is to know that it's normal to lose your mind a little bit, and in your moments of sanity apologise to those who've been putting up with it and sticking by you.
Good luck!!
2006-12-29 01:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Maddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I remember those days well. When I was pregnant with my twins, there were so many times I wanted to kill my husband for the least little thing... when you actually have time to stop and think about them, after the baby is born, you will ask yourself how in the world did you make it through. There is no quick fix on this, I wish I could say that I found something that helped me, but in all honesty, I didn't. I would scream and fight and then cry, and he rolled with the punches. Just remember it will pass. Theres so much going on with your body that it effects every part of you.. if a woman hasn't been through it before, she just wouldn't understand, and keep in mind each pregnancy is different. With my daughter, I was fine. I craved a lot of food, and cried a lot, with my twins, I was constantly irritated, hateful, grouchy, and so very tired. Its not permanent, keep telling yourself that, and talk yourself out of blowing up over the little things. Its not good for you, or for the baby. Good luck!
2006-12-29 00:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also pregnant with my third child and I have been reacting the same way to my husband lately and I have never been like this towards him as much before. Every little thing irritates me...even if I get a good nights sleep ... and just got done eating LOL But seriously, and I feel so bad too- I will be looking for your "best answer" because I need help on this one too...dont worry, you are NOT alone!
2006-12-29 00:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by jecruz@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol- I joke with my husband that it will be a miracle if we get through this pregnancy without a divorce. Just last night, I blew up on him for going fishing yesterday on his day off. In my mind, there were about a million good reasons to be so pissed:) This morning he was right there just snuggling up to me and I was all over being upset. Love those damn hormones! Maybe our minds aren't too far gone and they'll come back soon:)
2006-12-29 00:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Hormones, hormones and more hormones...They are the culprit. I am pregnant with my second and I have to tell you that my poor husband is beside himself trying to figure it out...If I'm not crying, I'm screaming. The poor man has been patient, he knew what to expect this time around. It is quite normal, don't worry. You cannot control it, it's beyond you. Relax and just let it be. Good luck!
2006-12-29 01:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by earthstarlatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in simple terms reread your q. you're patently very disenchanted, yet once you seem back on the sequence of activities as you defined, whilst your important different replaced into without warning somewhat moody, you have been the only that instigated the argument. You lost your cool first and at that factor issues went from undesirable to worse. Now this does not excuse his behaviour, yet for sure there replaced into something preying on his concepts. My analyzing is that he lost his temper vast time, yet that it replaced into goaded by employing your behaviour. Now, for sure you have ordinary him for some time and have not in the previous witnessed him lose his temper. you have a sparkling decision in front of you. you could know which you the two made errors and seek for to patch up your courting, or you could walk away. Of the two, strolling away is the common decision. you could place all the blame on him. you could think of which you have been completely harmless and he replaced into in basic terms a foul horrid guy who fooled you for all those years. Flopping on the settee and doing a 'undesirable me' won't resolve something, different than for attempting to guilt holiday him greater beneficial. Snag with this is that there is a shrink to how lots sympathy you could wring out of this spat. It takes 2 to make or smash a courting. in case you pick on your's to proceed, you ought to know that the two one in each and every of you screwed up. you in addition to mght ought to get your act collectively before he comes domicile.
2016-10-06 04:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by lyon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to pregnancy, when you feel like you did when you wrote this tell him, if he loves you he will understand, tell him you dont understand why, i bought my husband the book what to expect when your wife is expecting, along with some other ones, tell him you love him when you can a lot, it will help make up for those times you want to ring his neck i can relate i was the same way and we have more then one child and he still loves me go figure
2006-12-29 00:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by melissa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the walk away method.. i got so bad in my first preg. that i ran his butt off.. i would never want that for you .. laff about how grouchy you get and try to mo ve on.. you will be fine.. and it isnt long lived.. cherish the time.. hormonal or not..
2006-12-29 00:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him youre moody and he'll understand with you being pregnant and all don't worry he'll be there for you.... I wish you the very best for you, your husband and the little one.
2006-12-29 00:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by Loving his kiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋