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my wife had 2 previous miscarriages we have 2 children aged 6 and 4 and we are in our late thirties,we do not smoke and drink very little only on the odd occasions.thanks

2006-12-28 23:45:54 · 13 answers · asked by tricky 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Trying to Conceive

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Ideally is it a good idea to wait at least one cycle before you begin trying to conceive again after a miscarriage. If for some reason you do conceive earlier it generally isnt an issue. Its also important to remember that your previous miscarriage usually isnt an indication that you will not be able to carry another pregnancy to term. The best thing to do is to take time to grieve your miscarriage and only move on to trying to conceive again when you are emotionally ready so you are in the best emotional place possible to get pregnant. A miscarriage can be hard, but soon you will have a normal period and you will be ready to try again!

All The Very Best To You :) May God Bless You! :)

2006-12-28 23:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 1 · 2 1

Hiya,
Sorry to hear your news. I had a very early miscarriage...the type the docotors say happen to quite a few but they don't even realise it. We had been trying for over a year and a half (my first child took 5 weeks to conceive!). I was told to wait until i was ready emotionally and probably allow myself one or 2 normal periods before trying, therefore use protection. Unfortunately in the heat of the moment ht e protection was forgotton and i believe i feel pregnant only about a week after stopping bleeding from the mis. I am now 5 and a half month pregnant and everything (other than morning sickness!!! urgh!) has gone by amazingly easy! It is obvious to me now that there was a reason for the mis and my body hadn't been ready but is now. So as long as your wife feels emotionally well enough i would say any time after a period. Good luck to you's both. Relax. x

2006-12-28 23:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

don't push it.i had 2 miscarriages and i couldn't even look at another baby or have sex for weeks.now i have 4.you have 2 children now,don't put yourselfs though the pain of lost over and over.tell your wife to see a doctor and find out if your able to have more children.cause just because you have 2 already does not mean you can have more.i was told after my 2nd miscarriage that i was unable to carry a child because i have a Throyid problem,i proved them wrong but still,check yourself with the doctor and see what happens from their.i am really sorry about your lost i know how it feels but you have 2 children now you must this about.i still wonder to this day about the child that will never be then then i look at my children,and their faces make my world a whole lot better.

2006-12-29 00:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by vern 1 · 0 0

three months is the advised wait. i miss carried and fell pregnant too soon, within 2 months and i had a really bad 14 weeks of loss of blood and infection due 2 the last miscarriage and went in2 labour at 14 weeks, it was very distressing. miscarriages are distressing at anytime of the pregnancy so waiting a couple of months may be tourture but i believe it is alot safer even though this dosent rule out another miscarrige. i have had 5 miscarriages but i also have 3 beautiful children, i wish u well with ur future decisions

2006-12-29 01:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by flubberlubberlubber 4 · 0 0

Afetr miscarrying i was told that the reason we should try and wait three months is because if by any chance the reason for miscarrying was to do with a faulty batch of sperm then the turn around for producing a whole new batch is apparently twelve weeks...this way if it was anything to do with abnormal sperm then you are not using the same batch again and risking another miscarriage. I was told this by a physican so i assume it is correct?? Sorry to hear about the loss and goodluck to you both for the future

2006-12-29 00:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by doodlebip 4 · 0 0

I had two miscarriages, as soon as I stopped bleeding we started trying again not long after that we conceived my daughter who is 19 months old. The doctors say wait at least a month but if your wife thinks she is ready then fine, only she knows her own body...

2006-12-28 23:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is recommended to have one period before conceiving again so that the new pregnancy can be accurately dated. Ask you OB to be sure. I had two miscarriages very early on in pregnancy and was able to conceive within a few months. Best of luck to you.

2006-12-29 00:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by bibliobethica 4 · 0 0

good luck


After I had a miscarraige late november I did wait about 2-3 months and I gave birth the following november. The second time I had a miscarraige I fell lregnant the next week. Good luck to you and your wife. Happy new year


I had both miscarraiges about 5-8 weeks

2006-12-29 00:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by honey 3 · 0 0

One menstral cycle, is what my Doctor told me when I miscarried Wed. (6 weeks)

2006-12-28 23:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Maroo 3 · 0 0

normally you are advised to wait at least 3 months - to allow your body to get back to normal

2006-12-28 23:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by schmushe 6 · 0 0

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