of the dark.
Should i tell the silly cow to keep the light on then ???
It is so obvious that if someone is scared of the dark to keep the light on!!!!!!
2006-12-28 23:16:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh get yrself in there is yr wife still in hospital after falling off the ladder???
2006-12-28 23:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably afraid of the darkness outside rather than inside. Mention some of these possibilities to her:
Does she have decent security on the house? Doors she can lock from the inside etc?
Security lights out the back and front doors, which go on if there's movement.
Getting a dog or cat for company - the former will also guard the house.
Why is her husband working nights - how often will it be and for how many nights a week?
If it's only occasionally, could she invite someone over to spend the night, or consider staying with a friend?
Tell her to treat herself to help her relax - nice dinner (maybe something her husband doesn't like that she never gets to cook), rent a special movie etc - get her to learn how to enjoy her independence and appreciate her husband not being there!
Give her your contact numbers and tell her to keep a phone and the details by the bed, so if she's worried, she can call you and feel secure in the knowledge you'll be there in a flash!
2006-12-28 23:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Extra_Sweetcorn 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you realize that the issue is really not about being scared of the dark. You also seem concerned about visiting a neighbor's wife in his absence....and you rightfully should be. Unless the husband has asked you to stop in to check on the wife, I don't think I'd be rushing over to their house any time soon. You may soothe the situation over by letting her know (and in his presence hopefully) that you're available on an 'as needed basis' and that she can call if she needs you. In the event it becomes necessary to visit the 'silly cow' (as you put it) it may be a good idea to ensure your own spouse or S.O. accompanies you for the 'safety check'.
2006-12-28 23:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to leave the lights on unless she is really very beautiful then go over there and keep the lights off until some thing wonderful "pops" up.
2006-12-28 23:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the dear to keep all the lights on if she so chooses--she's in need of your company darling! Take the little wife along and visit for a time!
2006-12-28 23:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could tell her to leave some lights on. Having a pet would help. I would talk to her husband, or tell her to. Let night visits of the opposite sex, even if only friendly are just asking for trouble. Good Luck!
2006-12-29 01:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by kay2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh go on be a Samaritan and comfort her through the night, for every good deed there is a pay off xx
2006-12-29 01:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the answer to this question is easy.. if she cant turn the lights on in her house ther much chance of her turning a man on so forget it ull only be wasting your time on this woman!! try your other neighbour thow!!!
2006-12-28 23:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by sean06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are also afraid of the dark and that you will send Mrs London Bloke in to see if she's ok.
2006-12-29 00:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by : 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her if she's that scared of the dark to tell her husband that she will be inviting you over just to make sure everything is safe. if her husband is happy with it do it but as you know keep it proffesional - if you don't want to do it then tell her straight.
2006-12-28 23:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by sherry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋