please help me i am really upset
2006-12-28 23:09:09 · 27 answers · asked by aarti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I will not mind. I do not have too much of a ego as to waste my time and energy ruing over the perceived slight of my friend, in not wishing on my birth day. I should wish him well on all the days to come.
2006-12-28 23:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule which says best friends should not have fight or should not be egoistic. No issues call your friend up, chat for a while. Say a sorry. Tell your friend that its your birthday. and ask ur friend whether he/she knew of it. If so then why he/she didn't give a call..
See if your friend also feels sorry. If not, then not to worry he/she will surely feel guilty of it, but may not show it of. And That you will realize. thats more than sufficient to go ahead and forget the bitter past.
ANd YES whatever be the result do not forget to write an e-mail to me
2006-12-29 07:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by anitharanim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters why he is angry with you? If its a major falling out then it would be difficult for him to contact you to wish you a happy birthday. Maybe he's concerned about what kind of reception he will get.
I would say that it would need you to be the bigger person here and ring him, maybe invite him round to yours or out for a drink to celebrate your birthday. Show him there are no hard feelings and that you would like to sit down and discuss why he's angry towards you. If you can't agree with each other then at least you can agree to disagree without it affecting your friendship.
2006-12-29 07:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by JACQUI S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all wish u a very happy n wonderful birthday..
in my way of thinkin 1st u cal her or him 2 just get what n why is he or c angry on u? if u find that its ur fault den b sorry 4 what ur worng deed n b totally down 2 earth.. if its her or his mistake den try 2 make out n solve 4 misunderstandind created between u both..
after dat if possilbe give her/him a sorry card n a cute nice yellow bud so dat he/c get melted n if he/c is very close den give her a tight hug (jadoo ki jhapi) so that he/c will think 2ice b4 gettin angry next time.. it wil work dear..
so have a blast n rock ur birthday with ur best n close frndz along with ur parents.. take care n keep smilin al throughout ur life without ful tension..
2006-12-29 11:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday
I can understand, It has happened with me. On my 25th Birthday this year, I was expecting an E-Card of Birthday wishes, when i didn't receive, i mailed back and came to know that she has deleted her yahoo account, who day i wept wept and wept till late night. Unbelievable but true.
That's how, i spent my 25 Birthday, and i retured jesture by sending her an Hallmark E-Card on her Birthday exactly after a month.
U, be a good friend, when u will expect, u will risk your happiness.
2006-12-29 08:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call him first. Calling him First will not make you smaller than him. Respect for you will get bigger. If it was your fault then tell him that you are really sorry, if it was his fault then tell him that whatever happened you people will discuss and solve it nicely. Ask him to listen to you and listen everything that he says. coz this is the best way of solving any problem or misunderstandings.
I too do the same thing when there is any misunderstanding with my dearest ones, and then everything really get cleared.
2006-12-29 07:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true Best Friend would never do that even if it were your fault. So screw this so-called best friend and do yourself a favour… find yourself a true best friend. When and if he comes to his senses tell him to “F” off. No, better still tell him you did not even notice his absence or miss his call because you were having such a great time. Just delete him from your life.
2006-12-29 16:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing spl u hv to do. Jst call and tell him, u forget my bday, i know u r a busy person bt sorry i disturbed u bt i cudnt enjoyed my bday till u will nt wish me.
He is yr best friends so he will reliase and definitly u will enjoyed yr friendship
2006-12-29 08:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by rakesh poddar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a good friend she will call you.
It also depends on what you guys are fighting about.
I suggest you just enjoy your birthday and have a GREAT TIME!!! Dont worry about your friend, she will speak to you some time.
2006-12-29 07:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by caboodles111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her instead and tell her that you miss her so much on this day especially. Tell her sorry and invite her to spend sometime with you as a birthday present.
2006-12-30 05:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋