Ok, so honest answers here. If your husband/wife haven't been wearing their wedding ring for the last two days, and you mentioned it and they said "I for got to put it on" then made no move to put it back on what would you think? Yes we are fighting.....about things from the past, and he started the fight.
2006-12-28 23:05:14 · 18 answers · asked by Ang 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He has always worn his ring, I know he takes it off at work because he works on machines, but always puts it back on. I did see him spinning it on Christmas Eve deep oin thought too and asked if he was trying to get it off...
2006-12-28 23:11:16 · update #1
He probably forgot to put it back on, and you are making to much of it!
Try makeup sex!
2006-12-28 23:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to tell you why he has had it off and even left it off after you mentioned he wasn't wearing it. Let him tell you if he's left it off because of the fight or if it's more than that. It may be that he's left it off intentionally just so you would question it and he could then get his feelings out in the open.
Try to resolve the underlying issue, then tell him that it's important to you that he wear his ring (when not at work) as an expression of your love and commitment for each other. Those things still exist even when the two of you are fighting, so the ring should remain on.
2006-12-29 14:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's time to sit down and talk this out before things get out of hand. Why fight over the past? Nothing or no one can take away the past or change it so learn to live with it, put it behind you and look forward. A new year is approaching and this should be a time to look ahead to new beginnings. Let the past go and start living in the present and focusing on your future. Good Luck.
2006-12-29 07:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the only time my husband stopped wearing his wedding ring was when he was cheating on me. He like your husband always wore his ring and l too got suspicious when he stopped wearing it out of the blue only to find he was cheating. I would have a serious talk with him if l was you and l hope for your sake that he is not cheating. Good luck
2006-12-29 07:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the fight, maybe you its time you focused on your marriage. If you really feel threatened enough to ask what this means here you have some serious relationship issues. I am married and i take my rings off but that because they swell but when we go out i always oput them back on. The issue here isnt that he has taken them off but that he hasnt put them back on. When you are married you should feel naked without your wedding ring on.
2006-12-29 07:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by bonfireheat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd make it not about the ring, but your lack of communication.
i'd let him know that i was there and willing to help solve our problems, and give him a week or so to think about it before i brought the ring thing up. make it a "i feel this way when you don't wear our ring" thing rather than something which would be interpreted as a demand or an accusation. make it about your feelings, then he can't really argue with you.
2006-12-29 07:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't always wear mine its not that big a deal. My guy hasn't worn his in a long time. He has literally caught his finger in machinery and almost lost a finger also his knuckles swell up and it cuts off the circulation. Just because he doesn't put it on right away doesn't mean something is horribly wrong.
2006-12-29 07:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he obviously doesn't care enough to put it back on, unless he works in a profession where it's a safety hazard to wear rings at work. I myself work with electrical equipment, so I keep my rings in my pocket while at work, and a lot of times come home without them on.
2006-12-29 07:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a married man. and i love my wife so much ,well ,when i feel angry with her, or when she hurts me or makes something bad for me, i have a very great feeling to take off my wedding ring. does this help you? in normal cases, i feel like that someone takes my heart out of my body if i had had to take off my wedding ring. did u get it? did this help u? thanks,,,
2006-12-29 08:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by SemSem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably does not mean anythng but if it bothers you, go ahead and ask him to put it back. Fighting about things past is out of bounds in my opinion especially if you already agrred to put it behind you. (I assume you did). Communicate if you want to work things out.
2006-12-29 07:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by gdf888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously ask him was it something he wanted to ask me. I would put in a way that he feels comfortable answering me like,
"You know you can tell me anything right and I want you to know the minute you realize you don't want me I want to be 2nd to know. I love you but If your feelings for me have changed I would respect you letting me know before you fall into temptation.
2006-12-29 07:18:37 · answer #11 · answered by fentro1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋