are they born that way?? or am i a drama queen and take everything to heart??
2006-12-28 22:42:23 · 33 answers · asked by ravinski 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm not
2006-12-28 22:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,I'll give you my opinion. I think some men are insensitive. Some I think you just see them in that way. You're not really a drama queen and take everything to heart you're probably just curious. There's nothing really wrong when you're curious. Ohh yeahh, don't only look at the negative things on a man. Check their positive qualities... Before on the negative ones...
2006-12-28 22:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't intentionally insensitive, it's just the way we are. Allow me to elucidate; If for instance a girl comes to a guy with an issue (say, she has just fallen out with one of her girlie friends), all she'll want is a shoulder to cry on, a man's response in this case would be to see this as a problem to analyze and solve, and would proceed to do this. The girl meanwhile would mis-interpret this as the man being insensitive and detached. This is just one of many gender differences that have been around since the beginning of time.
Actually, that was a male type of answer. If I was a female, I *may* have said "Yeah, aren't they just?" :)
2006-12-29 04:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Chay D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not all of us are, dear! In fact I think it is quite insensitive to tar a whole gender with the same brush!
But.. I know what you mean I guess, I look at a lot of other guys and most are unable to see anything from another person's perspective or take their feelings into account. I guess that makes me all the more special :D
Then again, a lot of women are insensitive too .. but hey!!
2006-12-28 22:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Buck Flair 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
men are insensitive because it is much easier and manly to push emotion way down and not deal with it. And yes, you are a drama qween and need to not over think everything so much. BTW, do you know any men that are sensitive? They are the ones that girls have as "friends". No way babe, I need pu ssy and if being cold and calculating gets it, then so be it.
2006-12-28 22:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a man thing, they try to be tough but deep down there just as sensitive as a child, why I don't know.I don't think there born that way, but a male child is more dependent on the mom than a female child, maybe that has something to do with why there that way.
2006-12-28 22:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Louisa R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are insensitive, the one who did not have a good relationship with his mother.
I have found the ones who have a good relationship with their mother, are the ones that know how to treat a lady.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-28 22:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask such an insensitive question in such an insensitive way?
Perhaps you 've just answered your own question -- the problem may well be that you're insensitve to men, so it seems to you that they're insensitive to you.
If you don't like them, forget about men.
2006-12-28 22:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find your attitude to men insensitive. It is no better than when men say that women are over emotional.
I suggest that your problem might be half of what you do and say and half of what the man in your life says and does.
I don't want to be mean but it sounds like a little maturity might help.
2006-12-28 22:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well they r not insensitive...
They r humans n they have feelings too ....Sumtimes they give the feeling of being insensitive wid the so called i-dont-care attitude .
and...no u r not a drama queen ....
I agree wid narct3's first paragraph
2006-12-28 22:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a drama queen.
2006-12-28 23:55:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋