2006-12-28 22:40:42 · 13 answers · asked by paolo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Worrying?
2006-12-28 22:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I agree with others here. You should not worry about it. Your topo young to have that kind of stress. i would be who you are and let your life play out before you. You know if your attracted to men women. Well in your case boys or girls. if you feel you are gay then you probably are and I wouldn't stress you are not alone. I would keep it to yourself for a while though until you are older. Once you know for sure you can tell only real close friends and maybe even your parents if they are open kind and loving then they will accept you too. Be carfeful though being young doesn't mean you should go looking for older gay guys though. they will use you and thats not right. If you find soomeone in your own age group thats where you shuold stay and make them your friends. I was younger and got cought up with older guys and I got hurt real bad. It happens , a little bit my fault alot thier fault. be true to yourself, stand up for what you believe in, and smile! Hope this helps!
2006-12-28 23:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by qcdon30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should not worry, you are who you are, straight, bi or gay.
Although I'm not an expert in the field I think at the age of 13 (or older) an identification towards a particular orientation is unlikely to be a phase, and that it will probably (although not necessarily) continue into your adult life.
2006-12-28 22:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Keiko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you should start worrying persay, but at that age one starts to become aware of who one is and who they are attracted to. Hence you probably would start figuring out that you're gay at that age, but don't drive yourself nuts worrying. Just try to get through the rocky road that is adolescence with as much of your self esteem as you can intact. 13 is hard on everyone. You couldn't pay me to EVER go back to being that age again.
2006-12-29 06:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do for your 13yo is establish open communication. The worst thing that can happen is your child not feel they can come to you..13 is the beginning of a long road so dont lose him early on.
2006-12-29 07:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by W.E.S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you use the word "worrying"?
Would he worry about the color of his eyes? Or the shape of his nose?
Of course not.
And we knew our daughter was a lesbian by the time she was 6. Even before she knew it.
2006-12-28 23:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point in worrying, there is NOTHING you can do about it. You will develop to be who you will develop to be. If you want to worry about something, worry about doing well at school - you can do something about that.
2006-12-29 00:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Just enjoy life and experience new things. Then you can decide what is your sexuality is all about.
It's not wrong to be gay/straight/bi as its preferable to being confused and anxious about your sexual ID.
2006-12-28 23:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by E15 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.it's perfectly normal to think things about yourself and who you are attracted to.I know it's confusing because i went through the same thing that i think everyone else does and you'll be fine.Perfectly normal boy
2006-12-28 22:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by debra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some don't know @ 23 or 33!!!!! more studying less worrying !!!!
2006-12-28 22:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋