Why most of the people look on the outside not the inside of people?

Answer 1

because I'm not a radiologist?

Answer 2

The pace of the world is changing so fast that there are so many things that we are unable to undersatnd why certain people used to be like that. The environment plays somehow the important part of one's life and gives the most influence that basically an ordianry man can't resist. Let's straight forward to the main point of this question. Most people used to judge other people through the appearance or the outside, rather judge by looking into others' inner part. Most probaly this situation happens when that person has a very low virtue pratice in his/her life. He/she has undertaken that appearance plays the most important role in their life, simply not really because of what they think but is what others think about their partner or what anything that is with them. They expected things to be adorable that at the same time they as well getting the benefits for the own goodness, especially their name or social status. For example, some beauties (he/she) can't accept any 'simple' partner to be their loves one. Well this is the fact that this problem is really happening around the world since the world is changing rapidly whereby people respect or more keen for something that is beautiful and lovely. For those who love grooming or very strict on their appearance, could you accept yourself in a mess for a single time? Ask yourself. Well, we shouldn't be stereotype that all the people is like that, but some are like that. It can be briefly said that, dignity is very important, but it is more important for those innocent being rejected for what they have done or any wrong that they never done. We are living in a society and we are not living alone. What other thinks give a very big impact in our life. Simply to be accepted and valued in the society (for those who prefer appearance) they are blinded and forget the inner values. Maybe they thought that inner can be changed when the time comes. But they actually is making a big mistake that inner conscious is far more hard to be changed unless it comes from that particular person his/her-self. Appearance can be changed when there is a neccessity and oppurtunity. As we know that we are living in a totally $$$$ world. Nothing is impossible with $$$$. Outside and inside has a significant relation actually. Outside is derived from inside, but this is not applicable to everyone. It is only for those who are pure and true. That is tha reason why 'hypocrite' and 'lier' exist. Therefore, there are so many considerations have to be taken when judging others.

Answer 3

If someone is acting out instead of dealing with ones problems how then should people make a choice when it comes to close friendship? We were all born with free will to make personal choices under any circumstances and in any situation.

IMO no human being has the ability to be limited to looking simply "on the outside" therefore we "can't judge a book by it's cover" either. Sure there's always a the choices in behavior called a wild imagination, wishful thinking, know-it-all behavior etc....but then there is truth....something man has never been able to conquer. Take care.

Answer 4

I feel it has to do with natural selection. I feel we have an ingrained view that beauty (on the outside) is a sign of the best genes so we are attracted on looks first. I remember watching a movie in pysch class where babies were studied to see who they responded to more. When there was a picture of a pretty woman on the screen their faces would "light up" and they would show other positive reactions. When they put a picture of a women in make-up (say as a witch or very ugly) the baby would recoil. So some of it is nature vs nuture or we are born with some of these issues rather than develop them through society.

Answer 5

Who would have this kind of time.

Outside is visible -- take a quick study of a person, move-on or not.
If something grabs your attention, then you spend the time, possibly, to "look inside." Unless you're preoccupied.

People can hide more in the "inside" than they can on the "outside."
This is a self-interest view, but the "outside" look is the preliminary look.-- interest me, or I move on. If your are on the other end of the equation, and know the interest might not be there, you need to do something else to grab the attention of the "looker."
It is a selfish/self-interest way to look at things, but life is short. One needs to make a rather quick decision, and again, move-on, or not.

Answer 6

Cause it's usually easier to see the outside of people ... and mostly we as a people judge on appearance.

That's why chat rooms can be a good thing ... you get to know a person for who they are inside and not just judge someone from their looks

Answer 7

That isnt completely true hun, not all of us are like that. Maybe most of the people are like that, maybe even 90 % of the world population are like that. But for me, as a person it is important to firstly accept the person from the inside and after that from the outside.

If you bother with boys who only look what is under your skirt or what mark or label is the cloathing you wear, i will tell you that fight is already lost for them. They arent worth of attention, all they want is attention and it is mostly by the people of their own kind and class, becuse that way they prove to be on the top of the throne.

Most people do look more on the outside, and they also cheat and wear masks so you would think they care, and when you realise that, that wasnt their true face it will be too late.

Those people arent worth of attention, they mostly are people who spend too much time infront of the mirror saying " I love you " to myself, instead of true sight and meaning to others.

The hints are these:

- People who want your attention and trust, arent the ones who only look at the clothes you wear and the famous labels and trademarks you buy. You should practise of spoting those kinds of people, becuse they will do anything to get their attention.

- They are too much blind. Even a peasant may be a king one day, but not in their kindom. Some of them hardly see people as people, they see them as targets for self-sadistic and pleasuring acts of putting hope into those who hope someone should pay them attention and they mostly enjoy to get rid of that hope they transfered, just for attention and fun.

Even the stone has a heart, but even the stone needs to be won over :)

Answer 8

Maybe because first we look to the outside and then inside of people. The first impression is important.

Answer 9

Because gutting people is illegal.

Seriously, people tend to only see the outside, and judge accordingly.
If a person is dirty and smells, they may well be a nice person, but it is easy to see that their personal habits may be questionable.
Conversly, if a person looks happy and smiles a lot, you could presume with some degree of certainty that they are happy and content with themselves. Again a reasonable judgment made from appearances.

Which one will most people get to know better?

Answer 10

Because people generally are shallow. Deeper meaning? Humans likes superficial things and they really adore perfections. People really love perfections. People really cannot accept imperfections whatsoever. Perfections always give people comfort, indulgence and permissiveness.
And perfection is something that you really glimpse for the first time from the outlook appearances and external things. Since then, most of the people always look on the outside cuz it gives them a greatest aphrodisiac to their uncomfort mind and uneasy heart.
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Answer 11

We make judgments on people based on the first few seconds of meeting them, it's a sub conscious thing, within those few seconds there is not time to look below the surface. Nature is based on appearance, look how animals are brightly coloured to attract a mate. Looking below the surface comes with time and I think you have to train yourself not to make snap judgments but to take the time to get to know a person