One of mine good frnd last few days back told me that by my look he don't like me but over the phone he love to talk me he likes evything in me. But when im in front of him he don;t like me. we are contact with each other more than 1 yr. but suddenly last days he told me that after long time. I don't understand. So shall i go for talk to him or stop making calls to him
2006-12-28 22:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As u told told that u both r in contact for the past 1 yr. It is natural that now he have a habit to talk u... May be ur look is not so good... I'll advise u to do concentrate on ur looks ""not only because of him"" But because now-a-days......... it is a essential of our life...
So, just keep talking to him...... & slowly -slowly try to become yours look good....
May be u dont like what i am suggesting BUT ""BE PRACTICAL"" IN UR LIFE....
& IF IN REALITY THERE IS NOT ANY PROBLEM WITH LOOKS THEN ASK UR FRIEND DIRECTLY ABOUT THE PROBLEM..........
NUT DONT STOP TALKING TO HIM......... ITS NOT THE SOLUTION
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-28 22:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not even ask this question and snap the ties with the guy. May be, looks matter at the first instance. But this guy has known you for over 1 year and now he is telling you that he does not like your looks and still loves talking to you.
I do not what you have been talking about. But if it is a sort of romantic talk, you are in a mess. Are you providing him 'phone dating' or 'phone sex' sort of thing?
He does not deserve to be a friend. I hope you are not imposing yourself. He is not worth friendship or trust. May be he was up to something and he could not get it and now he is trying to get rid of you.
DROP HIM...
2006-12-28 23:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you ever call him a friend after he telling you that you don't look good. Actualy looks are something irrelevent as far as a good friendship is concerned. He is just using, may be your good voice and your nice way of talking for time pass. So stop talking to him. Let him understand that it is not so easy to get what ever he like only.
2006-12-28 23:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by dinnu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can a person NOT want to talk to u just becoz he doest like the way u look????
Its utter nonsense and if he really wanted to be ur friend,such a situation wud not have come!
I think he thinks u r timepass,and my God,he even has the guts to tell u that u dont look good!
u shud definitely stop talking to this guy!
2006-12-28 22:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by The Slytherin Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are friends
your question has two sides like a coin
firstly ask him what he don't like about you and remember a good
friend is one who want to see you the best and tell about your faults.
and friendship depends up on how much you understand each other not on looks.
in this case you should continue your friendship with him because he like to talk to you and as far as looks are concern than you only talk to him not meet him as you have said
2006-12-28 23:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by bloom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to him as a person who likes or dislikes someone by his or her face and not by behaviour that must not be talked and made friend
2006-12-28 22:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by AMRIT A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the person seems to be stupid.wat does he mean that he likes chatting with u but dont really likes u. u shud go to ur real true friend and ask him/her wat is the most disattracting part of u? go according to ur true friend.
2006-12-31 21:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋