2006-12-28 22:13:25 · 9 answers · asked by preeti 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
It is beginning to sound as if you are using the threat of suicide to try and force him to love you. That is wrong. And it doesn't work. If he doesn't want to be with you you have one choice. That is to accept It.You can't force someone to love you.
And you can live without him. You lived for a long time without him before he came along. Your heart ache will heal. But dead is dead and you will be hurting everyone you know EXCEPT your "Love" who will probably be relieved that he got clear of you before you self-destructed. Let go of this and go do something else for awhile. You are working yourself into a very bad place.
2006-12-28 22:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Batty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. Anyway, just because he cried when he heard that you would commit suicide, it doesn't mean he loves or even LIKES you. It's just an ordinary human reaction.
Besides, don't depend so much on others in your life. You mjust have a good strong will and stand straight and firm no matter what. Your actions or intentions (from whatever I can discern from your question) are terribly weak and manipulative. Do something constructive with your life and you'll find some meaning beyond this guy.
2006-12-29 06:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by marianne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. No one wants a manipulating blackmailing friend. You need counseling and he is smart to stay the h---- away from you. If you are so selfish that yo'd kill youself because someone makes a decision you don't like, than you should take a long look AT YOURSELF! Committing suicide will only convince him he was RIGHT about what an emotional cripple person you are.
2006-12-29 06:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do not tell someone you want to die. That is not going to win anyone back. I know I wouldn't go back to someone because they want to commit suicide. That is no way to start a relationship.
If you want to win him, date him. Let him know you would like to continue seeing him and hopefully it will blossom into a love story. If you want happiness in a relationship, let it happen naturally. You can not make anyone love you (especially with threats of suicide) as also for you, nobody can make you love them.
2006-12-29 06:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by r_a_i_n_m_a_n_5_9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on first come out from the decesion of dying because first be positive automatically the answer will come now you are thinking about dying so you cannot be positive first say yourself you are going to live with him at any cost and start thinking how to do that rather thinknig about dying ,the answer is with you itself but you are trying to run away from it.i know you can do it and you will do it ,when i hear from you both will be there in very happy mood talking about how to live in happy moods
2006-12-29 06:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by satyan 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, what? Are you saying you'll kill yourself if you can't have this dude? NOBODY is worth that.
2006-12-29 06:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is SUCH a cute feather. You are adorable!!
2006-12-29 06:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he cares about you that much it shouldnt be that hard just keep doing what your doing i guess
2006-12-29 06:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by naamah076 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a story?.....
-Ginger
2006-12-29 06:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋