2006-12-28 22:03:56 · 14 answers · asked by shl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont cheat. thats the worse thing a man/woman could do ina marriage. escpeccially if you have kids then...
2006-12-28 22:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, communicate! Remember that you will have disagreements, but the important thing is to talk them out and not let little things become big ones.
Don't go to bed mad at each other. Neither of you will sleep well and it doesn't help to let the issue drive a wedge between you. Even if you haven't resolved things, agree to talk about them (calmly) later on and call a truce for the time being.
Treat each other with respect. Consult each other on decisions that affect both of you and respect your spouse's opinion. Take your spouse's feelings into consideration in all that you do. Expect the same in return.
Remember the things that made you fall in love with each other and keep doing them.
2006-12-29 07:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key. Talk rationally and honestly. No yelling. Do not cheat or cause mistrust. Always trust your partner and your partner will trust you. Treat others how you want to be treated. When they do something you like, tell them! Always do things together as a couple. Put God first in your marriage. If you are married, you have a partner. Remember that he or she is your partner in all decision making. Put yourself in their shoes at times. Understand their point of view. Talking to each other is very important. Keep the lines of communication open.
2006-12-29 01:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by wildcat137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-28 12:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight over pointless things.
My mom and her husband (obviously my step dad) always fight over retarted things, so it makes you think that they could decide to divorce any day.
Example: If one of you put the silverwear in the drawer all sloppy... don't make a big deal out of it, and DEFINITELY don't let it start more fights so that you're mad at each other all day about other things. Try to ignore it, or you could just say something that they won't be offended over.
2006-12-28 22:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by ?Johanna Loves Superman? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man marries a woman hoping that she will never change.
A woman marries a man hoping that she can change him.
Both never happen.
The woman will change as she grows older and more confident and the man will never change, his habits are his habits.
Understand this and you will have a happy marriage.
2006-12-28 22:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been said b4 but dont cheat.Talk to each other dont keep little things inside till they fester.Respect each other Listen to each other.Its all about communication.Too much drinking or drugs will surely lead to ruin.Have fun with each other.Its a lota work but its the best job you can find if you have chose the right partner.
2006-12-28 22:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by P.Bunyun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your shoes under your own bed for one. I've been married for 49 years it's a struggle.
2006-12-28 22:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say trust is the most important thing in any relationship between people! When there is no trust, there is no communication between them!
2006-12-28 22:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by Cristana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, patience,
understanding, compassion,
affection.
Treat him/her the way that you want to be treated. Always communicate, discuss things and don't hide things from each other.
and NEVER go to bed angry!
2006-12-28 22:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by pamomof4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋