What can they do to regain it?
2006-12-28 22:02:02 · 9 answers · asked by MissChatea 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All of them. Its natural for women to plead for attention in anyway they can. It provides an excuse to cheat.
If you want to rekindle the romance in the household instead of cheating though, the best way is to get away for a while or have him go away for a while. a week-end fishing trip for him or maybe a week long sight-seeing trip for you. All kinds of options, but the old addage, "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is very true.
You have to think, Men weren't really made to be home 24/7/365 by nature. Warfare and hunting doesn't really provide for that. But civilization has changed the roles in the marriage. People's labidos have suffered as a result.
2006-12-28 22:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well guess what heres a man that does too. the main thing i would suggest is communication. try voice or articualting the problems. too often women will assume men know what they want or hint around about it when the truth is that men dont because women are afraid to face the issues directly. unforunately for women, men are simple creatures who respond poorly to suggestions and hints. communicate directly and clearly articulate what you want. not exactly the most creative approach but often enough gets the job done. you got married for some reasons. you need to attempt to revisit what they were and determine if they are still there. usually they are if you look.
2006-12-28 22:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Passion only lasts for a short time---then reality sets in. Seems as if the relationship was built on shakey territory from the beginning----but passion can be brought back---use your imagination. No pressure...that only makes it worse...relax and both of you need to settle down and take time for yourselves. Good luck
2006-12-28 22:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who complain of being bored are usually boring, being disinterested - uninteresting and so if one is concerned about passion my suggestion is to become more passionate themselves. It creates an invitation to their partner to be likewise. And if one wants passion then one must offer it in return.
2006-12-28 22:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by outdone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try not to compare your husband to other men. Think of the good things about him. Thank God for your spouse each and everyday of your life. By appreciating him, you'll love him more...
2006-12-28 22:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by Titi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is not the womans fault, she needs to bring it to her husbands
attention and ask for his help in reviving the marriage..
2006-12-28 23:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe take a break ( vacation ) together and just be like boyfriend/girlfriend .
2006-12-28 22:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you always eat the same dish, will you get bored? if your husband don't even bother to please you, pay attention to you or even whisper one compliment in your ear to assure his love for you, wouldn't you get pissed off?
2006-12-28 22:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Yoo Hoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some porno movies.
2006-12-28 22:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋