2006-12-28 21:59:49 · 18 answers · asked by preeti 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
What exactly is your question? If you've already made up your mind, what do you want us to say? Do you want us to beg you not to end your life and give you the "counselorized" answers about getting help?
You know as well as the rest of us that just because your suffering from unrequited love is no reason to die. You'll get over it, believe it or not ... you'll meet someone else and everything will be fine again. Just give it some time.
2006-12-28 22:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know what you mean. That feeling does feel like death is better. And the truth is something already did die. That's why you feel so bad. If the loving feeling wasn't good, you wouldn't want to die without it. All things must die to make way for new things. New things will be in your future. Keep this in mind because this is a beginning for you, not an end. You just need to grieve for the death of your love. Then new love will be even sweeter.
2006-12-30 20:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by nikole s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if your loved one decides to come back to you next month? Or what if you fall in love with someone else? Or what if you missed the chance to give a baby a chance to have a life because you weren't here to be it's Mom?
Broken hearts hurt. A lot. But they do heal, and life goes on and you feel joy and love again. I promise. We all go through it, we all survive it and grow stronger from the experience.
Hang on and if things don't get better in a few weeks you can write me and call me a liar! OK?
2006-12-29 06:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Batty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You realize that if you die, you will never get the love of your life. Instead of dying, may I make a recommendation?
You must love yourself before anyone else has a chance to love you. If not, you will continue to sabotage your relationships. Take some time out and learn what it is that YOU love. Learn about yourself. What is your "love language"? By that, I mean, how do YOU express love?
Learn about yourself and love yourself for who you are. I know, without even knowing you, that there are special things about you that are unique.
Find out what that is. I know you will be happier in the long run.
Please let me know what you learn.
2006-12-29 06:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then by dying will you get him? No ! Never ! So better learn to love what you have.Thats the secret of happiness.
The other side of the grass always appears to be greener (just like a mirage) but its never the better.
Remember :-
Happiness is a state of mind developed and maintained by you.
2006-12-31 05:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by aum_sudha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a....i don't know what to say. c'mon, lets die together. i am a coward, so u shoot me, i shoot you. game over. agreed?
well, if not agreed. don't die because dieing is not worth anything. you won't get love by dieing. so drop the idea. wait for love to approach you and not the other way round.
take care and DON'T die. love told me he will be visiting you soon. Happy New Year and Life.
2007-01-01 08:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kelrec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Preeti,
don't even try to do that coz these r the phase of life & settled by God & fate. try to come over these things. hope for some better
& if u r talking it coz of a boyfriend I am sorry to say that u r a fool
2006-12-29 08:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have beenn hanging on to a reltionship for 17yr's married.I have a son 12yr's old .No matter what i do my wife still acts like i don't exist.but i don't care ,i still love her and if i were to die today she would dance on my grave.But i have to think about the other people in my life,Son,Sisters and all the people this would affect.You have alot of things to live for .This would just hurt yhe people in ur life .Please think of them,not him.JOHNNY
2006-12-29 13:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by jwalker1597 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discover ur self by finding ur hidden beloved in u life is precious and we r always in learninng processif u dont find ur beloved than god will give u some thing else wait and let the life go ahead
2006-12-29 06:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by husain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once thought the person I loved was worth dying for because he did not love me. But even with your death they will go on without you. It will not be easy for you at first but this will pass. Death is not the answer.
2006-12-29 09:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by caribbeanmeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋