i am a girl of 15 yrs
.I have a friend who is a boy. We have been friends for last 2 yrs. He was very nice.
But one day, he touched me which no boy had done to me ever before. he holds my hand for silly things and often holds my waist when we are playingand when we are alone. Why is he doing this? How should i say that i am very uncomfortable with him? Is he trying to have sex with me?
2006-12-28 21:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First if he touched you in an inappropriate place tell him not to and if he continues tell a responsible person, teacher or school counsellor or keep away from him. He obviously likes you and wants to be more than friends and if you don`t, talk to him and let him know you only want to be friends. It gets easier as you get older and more experienced.
2006-12-28 22:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think he Cares about you but just make sure that you
leave it like that and keep your Friendship.
If you do not like him holding you then tell him
If he is a Decent guy he will understand
You are much to young to think of any form of Sex
One Experiment of Sex could be the Biggest Mistake of your Life
In many Ways
2006-12-28 22:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by uksawatdii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi by the sounds of it i think he is testing you to see if you would have sex with him because if you have been friends for two years and he has never done this thing before then he is your friend im only guessing but if he is around the same age his body clock is telling him its time to have sex or experiment with it but my suggestion is not to do it and enjoy life while you are young. if he is making you feel uncomfortable ask him to stop it and if he does not stop it tell him to stop it if he does not stop it tell someone before it gets out of control . then inform him he is no longer your friend . hope this helps
2006-12-28 22:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by robert p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the whole story but if you feel uncomfortable tell someone. I suggest you tell someone first, someone with some authority then talk to him. He may in some strange way think you're in a sort of relationship.
Don't ever let anyone puncture your comfort bubble.
2006-12-28 22:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by manbearpig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really likes you (teenage talk for he's interested in you). If you don't feel the same, you need to let him know that you just want to be friends. I don't think he's trying to have sex with you. He may be taking it slow, seeing how you feel about him.
2006-12-28 22:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are uncomfortable with how he holds you then let him know . talk to him . it's too early for both of you to be thinking about sex . enjoy your youth .
2006-12-28 22:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be or may not be. you should talk to him wheather he is interested in you. there would be two kind of interest he would have. either he wants to get physical with you or he wants to be closer to you. i think the second one have a fair chance as he is always nice to you. its upto you after that.
2006-12-28 23:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by shil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might like u as more then a freind if u dont like him dont lead him on but dont tell him ur uncomftrable with him tuching nhe will NOT take it seriously and will take it as a way that u are hiting on him
2006-12-28 22:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by blah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every boys like to sex with his g/f
2006-12-28 22:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by leandar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about sex,but he obviously likes you,and probably wants to be with you.
2006-12-28 22:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie,the cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋