for 6 years now me and my step sister have been doing well anything u can imagine...but oh about an hour or two ago we got in a fight (meaning she was hitting me and scratching me while i tryed to pin her down) and now she says she hates me and doesnt love me anymore and all that **** and now she says she will never trust me again it just hurts because ive told her before that i love her more than anyone and without her its like having a hole in my heart...she also says that she thinks i only love her cuz of the things we used to do which isnt true...i just feel so bad cuz i hurt the person i love the most and right now i just wanna kill myself....what do i do? PLEASE HELP before i really end up killing myself
2006-12-28 21:13:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Number one don't kill yourself cuz you probably have a lot of things ahead of you in life. Number two you need to ask her why she hates you now when she wuz the one who beat you up. Number three if she doesn't talk to you today just give her some space I mean she is your sister, step or not and she cant be mad at you forever. She may say she doesn't love you anymore but, sometimes people just say things at the moment that they don't really mean. Don't get mad over one person. You'll be okay trust me I know. Maybe you could e-mail me if anything else happens @ Tinkerbell65432@yahoo.com
2006-12-28 21:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all.... go take a walk atleast for a mile or so (30 min.) and while you do that think things over.
Than walk back and you will feel slightly better.
All I want to say is be patience, if it's been so great over the years... it will come back. Killing yourself is a waste cuse you will have great times with her ahead. patience
2006-12-29 05:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by John Th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you F-ed your Step-Sister?!
Good God, man!
Maybe you two should make an appointment with a family counsilor and get all of this off your chests and find a way to set about living a "normal" Brother/Sister relationship.
I also wouldn't mention all of this to your parents....they will FLIP OUT!
2006-12-29 05:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What did you do to make her so mad? Maybe you should just appologize. Oh, and stop trying to pin her down. That would make me mad enough to hate you, too.
2006-12-29 05:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by bashnick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people say hurtful things when they're angry even if they don't mean them give her some space then try to talk to her again
2006-12-29 05:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by aeymz_c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time to settle down.killing is not answer
2006-12-29 05:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋