when i was 13, i expireinced a bad friendship with these girls. Part of it was from me going out of the way trying to be friends with them and sometimes going up town to see them. I sometime stood around them to talk to them but they ignored me. But they were phony friends not talking to me unless i talked to them and not telling me they were uncomfterable untill it go out of hand and i went to see the guidance consuler every other week in school. I got into a lot of trouble because of them and i was even accused of stalking them. This all ended with them telling me their true feelings and ending our friendship. Was this all my fault or theres?
2006-12-28 20:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by karpflover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have movd on. i am 17 but i still think about what happened and hope to prevent it.
2006-12-28 21:01:50 · update #1
It was obvious that they were not trying to befriend you...move on to people who will appreciate what you have to offer. You should know when someone does not prefer your company.
2006-12-28 21:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem to be unable to get past this---why do you insist on thinking about this??? MOVE ON---it is their choice to not include you---you need to learn how to read people's reactions to you---maybe there is something about you that peopl don't like---At 13, you better worry about school and cool the hanging out scene--GROW UP and stop whining--that's probably what they didn't like about you. Go find people that will be friends---talk and share and have fun---maybe you better take a look at yourself and talk like a schooled person--not an idiot.
2006-12-28 20:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a stalker. Do not press girls if they are not interested. Move on and date other girls. There are plenty of girls out there. Date 5 ~10 different girls if you can. Then, the one that you are interested in will come flocking to you.
2006-12-28 21:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like it's their fault.. I don't know the whole story, but I have dealt with psychotic, backstabbing theatrical people. It's nuts, but I wouldn't blame yourself. Just be careful of who you choose as your friends in the future, and try to be more aware of what you're working for :)
2006-12-28 20:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nyara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could partly be your fault because you are not supposed to force people into friendahip but also your parents maybe to blame.For you to force people to love you is a sigh that you were missing attention and love.
2006-12-28 20:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How exactly did it get out of hand paco? I think they should be in fault because they never told you they felt uncomfortable with you around.
2006-12-28 20:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have learnt your lesson , forget about whose fault it was. Just drop em and move on. Next time choose friends carefully.
2006-12-28 20:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its not a question of fault. its a qn of reality. its better to avoid people if they are giving u such pain, i learnt that the hard way
2006-12-28 20:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it more of their fault cuz they not trying to see how wonderful u really r by trying to become their friends. too bad for them for losing u.
2006-12-28 20:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theirs probably. They weren't your true friends. Best to move on. n
2006-12-28 20:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋